Nov 2ww Part 11

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kelbabe - November 3

morning ladies.............how is everone today? i am still full of flu, and my neck still isnt better!!!!

 

kelbabe - November 3

OK, hopefully i will get to natter to some of you later.......i have to pop out, so i will be about later........take care all. x x

 

kelbabe - November 3

where is everybody??? have you all disowned me??? =(

 

jezebel1018 - November 3

im sorry you still have the flu kel. i hope you feel better soon :)

 

julepowers - November 3

Hey Kel! How are you? I was reading your other posts from #9 and I'm going through the same thing right now! Sorry that I've been off line for the past few days. I got AF on Thursday and my DH and I ended up getting into a huge fight. I think we're both under so much stress right now and it just built up. However, I have the same situation as you. He is really insensitive and doesn't spend the time I need him to spend with me. We both really want a baby, but I'm not sure that I want one so badly that I'm overlooking his c___ppy behavior. It's so frustrating! He knows how upset I have been and he's out at a party tonight. Ughhhhh...I have to start my fertility drugs today CD3 and I got an ultrasound to check my follicles this morning and everything looks good. I don't even know if it's worth trying right now. Things are just bad between us. It's so much work! I don't k now if I want to be wiht him either, but I'm 32 and it sounds terrible, but I cna't imagine starting over. Any advice ladies??? Thanks! Baby dust to all!!! :)

 

julepowers - November 3

wow, i just underaged myself!!! I'm 34!!! Wishful thinking I guess. Too funny. My mind must have over rode my typing hands!!

 

anamariaflorencia - November 3

Oh Kel! I can't believe you're still sick! You poor thing. Jez, 34 is not too young to start over. My mom is 45 and her psychologist had to ingrain it in her head, that she still has half her life left to live! Do you really want to spend the rest of it unhappy? Not saying you should start over, but you certainly shouldn't settle for spend the rest of your days in something unfullfilling.

 

anamariaflorencia - November 3

I am on cd 34, almost 35 and no af yet and another negative test this morning. I'm 4 days last. My temps were still high this morning 98.8, but my cervix is hard and low (I just checked) so I'm not to hopeful. Anyone got any encouragement for me?

 

kelbabe - November 4

hi girls....thanks for the support...im feeling better today......jules......in a strange way i am glad someone else is goin through the same thing, and at the i am sorry to hear it!!! of course you are not to young jules...my mum is 43 and she has just started all over again!! she is on her own and just got a pub a year a go...she c___pped herself, but now says its the best thing she ever did!!!......anamarie is right, we cant live this way if we are unhappy......i didnt want to get back with him last time, but i did because of the girls, iand i felt really guilty about kicking him out!!! he only had his mums to go to, and to be honest, her fella doesnt want him there!!! so i felt like i was putting on them!! sad, but true. i finally told him last night i am so unhappy, and that the few good times we did have, werent enough to make me wanna stay with him!! its hard for me too, because i am scared of being on my own, i dont really have any confidence left, i have a few probs that stop me from meeting other people!!!

 

kelbabe - November 4

anamarie..high temp and late af sounds promising.........i read that the cervix doesnt always change straight away, so dont give up hope yet, x x

 

kelbabe - November 4

jules......marissa was playing me up, so i messed up on my post...i meant that i are not to old to start over!! lol. sorry!!!

 

anamariaflorencia - November 4

Thanks Kel for the encouragement! Today I'm 5 days late. Usually having s_x will start a hest_tant period...don't know if it's the stimulation to the cervix or what. We bd'd today and I now have this light gold discharge (without the metalic shiny-ness of course)...so I'm thinking that af will start soon. It usually takes a few days to transition from light spotting to real bleeding for me, so I'll hang on to the notion that I might be pg until I see a real af. Funny that last night and today my b___sts are big and sore. Talk about mixed signals. It's probably a little late for implantation bleeding. Oh well. DH said we could look into some basic fertility testing within the next 3-6 months. I hope there is nothing wrong, or if there is, that it's something fixable. You know though, I was thinking earlier that if we aren't able to have kids, that will still be wonderful. Getting to spend lazy weekends eating out and watching football and snugglying by a fire (if we ever buy a house with a fire place). And we wont have to pay for anybody's college. And we'll never have to hear "I hate you mom" from a rebelous teenager. I'll just have to borrow other people's babies for my fix. HOpe all are doing well.

 

Doubleal - November 5

Hello all...hope everyone is doing ok today.....

 

kelbabe - November 5

hi all........gosh were is everybody??? anamarie, any sign of af or bfp??? ....double, i am ok, u?.....i went out with dh last night, and he was all over me, it made me think, as i didnt really want him all over me!!! (does that make sense?) im still not sure what i want, and things are still c___p!!!

 

anamariaflorencia - November 5

Good morning everyone! Well, that beige staining only happened directly after intercourse and stopped. Temps still at around 98.8. Today I'm 6 days late for af and have taken 3 pg tests, all negative. My b___bs still hurt, but that's about it.

 

anamariaflorencia - November 5

Oh well, I spoke to soon, even though my temps were high this morning, it looks like the beginnings of af. I want to start charting online this month, does anyone have any recommendations for a free online chart that offers lots of help and info? For instance, i don't understand why I'm getting af when my temps are still up. Or do your temps drop pretty suddenly when you start af? I mean, I just temped a few hours ago and now af. Anyway, please send me the link to your fav. chart. Thanks!

 

Doubleal - November 5

Kel, I am pretty good....Really sorry to hear about you and dh....If it helps..i have been married for 11 years and together for 14...we have had our ups and downs...we were separated for a little while...and there did come a piont in our marriage(or even if your not married..its ok)i could not stand him!!!....everything he did,said,his walk ...EVERYTHING bothered me....i would look at him in and wonder why am i here.....then i finally said we need to talk and we both let it all out...and it wasn't easy...some of the things he said hurt...but here we are today...happy....i can understand your thinking of really not wanting to be there....just sit take time when you can by yourself and really go over some stuff in your head...i hope i shed alittle light on the situation.....Ana, i use the website My monthly cycles dot com....i really like it....hope it works for you.....gl all!!!

 

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