Ovulation Timing And Weak S

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ja116 - June 7

Hi everyone, I'm in a confusing situation. I'm about 2 weeks late. Last week the test was -, today it's a weak + and i've been having period like cramps (no bleeding, no n&v). My last period was 4/29/10. We stupidly used the "pull-out method" and we had s_x on 5/1, 5/4, 5/12, and on 5/18 - when my guy decided he didn't want a relationship with me. So on the 19th I got insanely drunk and had a one-night stand with some guy (no pre-s_x ejaculation, s_x for 10 min, then he pulled out). I usually run a 30+ day cycle and should have had my period on 5/29. The ovulation calender show's my fertile days as 5/10 through 5/14. I don't know if I should tell my ex, can I rely on an ovulation calender? Please any advice would be greatly appreciated . . .

 

Grandpa Viv - June 7

I think you have it figured out pretty well. May 18 was far enough past ovulation that it would not have caused pregnancy. Your ex is fixing to become a father, and he is more likely to believe he is responsible if you tell him now rather than later. Don't bother him with the details of the one night stand. If you want advice on other options, the closest Planned Parenthood will answer to 1-800-230-PLAN. GL!

 

ja116 - June 8

Thank you Grandpa Viv, your post is extremely helpful :) I'll have to struggle to find the words, but I will tell him soon. -J

 

Grandpa Viv - June 8

Hmm! A little humor, perhaps? "Honey, I hear you about not wanting a relationship with me. Are you interested in a relationship with someone else? Someone small?"

 

ja116 - June 8

Haha, thanks I needed that!

 

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