Please Dont Think Badly Of Me

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scared - October 19

okay u guys i see that u answer hundreds of questions and ive noticed every single one of u is very supportive. please dont think badly of me when i ask this question. i used to smoke marijuana on a regular bases with friends trying to fit in, i just recentley decided i wanted to get my life on track and stop smoking marijuana. this was a little more then 3 weeks ago and it was around the time my period was due well needless to say it never came and ive been feeling different it seems my weight is carried differently more so around my tummy then my hips, its very uncomfortable to lay on my belly at night, ive been very depressed and just a totally different person i wont even let my boyfriend touch my belly anymore i have taken 2 tests both coming back negative but im afraid i may still have the thc in my system and im wondering if that could cause a negative reading. id appreciate ur help.

 

bean - October 19

Scared - the feelings you may be experiencing may be due to the fact that your body is trying to get clean. Congrats on your decision to quit!!! Your period being late may also be due to the changes your body is experiencing. As for pg, do you have any reasons to suspect you may be pg (such as unprotected s_x)? Your weight, tummy, and all that will not change until you are at least several wks pg, especially if this is your first, so you really can't read into that. You've already had 2 negative tests. No, drugs, alcohol, or anything else will not cause false negatives. These tests measure hcg, a hormone which is produced once a fertilized egg implants. Try your best to stay away from any bad substances - drugs, cigarettes, alcohol, even perscription or over the counter medications, until your body has had a chance to get back on track (may take a while). Over time I'm sure you'll begin to feel better. As for your period being late... I think you'll just have to wait for her to show up. In the meantime (and always), practice safe s_x.

 

scared - October 19

this is not my first pregnancy i have a daughter who is 15 months old and she is another one of the reasons i quite i know i waited a long time and i now regret that but i just want to be a good mom and move on with my life clean of drugs im 19 and live with my boyfriend and daughter ive tried quitting before and have never had these feelings its not so much the seeing changes its feeling them and i do have un protected s_x almost every night i know my stupidity. but i just want to find out whats going on with me and become the mom i always dreamt i would be.

 

Amanda - October 19

Scared- When in doubt, go to the doctor. If I were you, I would go get a blood test done to be sure. If you can't afford to do that, I would go with what Bean said. You should stay away from any substances that are not good for you in case you may be pregnant. You'll just have to play the waiting game. Also, if you are not pregnant and really are not trying, I would start practicing safe s_x. It is no fun having to worry about being pregnant if it isnt what you want. I have been there. Good luck to you and take care of yourself. I am sure that you will turn out to be the mom that you always wanted to be.

 

scared - October 19

i want to thank you guys for your advice and for not judging me unfortunetly i cant afford a blood test at this time but if i turn out not pregnant im def going to get on some birth control . thanks again for all the support and advice i truly apprieciate it!

 

Amanda - October 19

You are welcome. That is what we are here for. When I was your age, I had my share of issues. I would never judge someone because we all go thru troubled times at some point. No one is perfect. Just make sure that you take care of yourself and your child.

 

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