Please I Need Everyones Advice

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Tina - September 14

hi, i am very confused and what i should do. i am only 18 and think that i am pregnant. i have a lot of symptoms of it. but my concern is if i am pregnant wat should i do? i am with my boyfriend of 3yrs and i have gotten pregnant before. i had an abortion which i still regret to this day but i was only 17 and my boyfriend was concerned about providing for the baby because his parents would flip.. now that i am done with HS and planed on proceeding with my career i find myself thinking that i am pregnant again. i duno know what to do because my boyfriend and his family are moving to cali and i live in new york.. but i am waiting until i am certain that i am pregnant but if i am..i dont know how to tell him & scared of his reaction. i dont want to have another abortion

 

Viv - September 14

Ha! A decision tree! I suppose you were planning to continue the relationship when he moves across the country. Has he given you the feeling that you have a long term future? If not, and you decide to terminate, you need tell him nothing. If you expect a long term future then you need to take him into your confidence and decide together. If he says "abort again" and you cannot agree, the relationship is pretty much over, but he will end up paying child support (make sure you have his SSNo?) . If he says "I love you darling, we can work this out. Hang in there!" then the problem is solved.

 

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