Please Just Help Me If Someone Has Any Answers PLEASE

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Michelle - January 24

I have been off the pill for about 8 months now. The first month after I got regular period. After that I haven't been getting my period. About 4 months ago I took a pregnancy test at the doctors and it was neg. My boyfriend and I have been having alot of unprotected s_x lately and about a month ago I really felt like I was going to get my period. Period cramps and all but they never came. Could I be pregnant? I don't have any symptoms besides having to pee alot and not being able to hold it in. I feel a bit of nausea but it could all be in my head. Help. I am only 19

 

sarahb - January 25

Michelle-What kind of test did you have urine or blood?

 

Michelle - January 25

I took a urine test at home. It was neg.. I went to the doc's and took another one.. Neg again...

 

B'Lana - January 25

Michelle, it seems like a lot of ladies here had negatives through 3rd month. My mom had negatives on home and dr. blood test on both pregnancies. It is a possibility that you are pg, but your hormon levels are not high enough to detect. I guess, welcome to our waiting club :) I have all symptoms but still negative tests. Since I was not trying for a baby, it wasn't in my head when I started feeling this way... so maybe you are experiencing the same way I do... just to be on a safe side, start taking care of yourself, wait a week or 6-9 days and try another test. If your insurance supports any other test, you can ask your doctor to do a "count test" I am not sure what they do but people say it's the best in terms of accuracy. My insurance doesn't support it so I don't really know much-no sense of thinking if you can't get it :) I am only 20 btw :) What pill did you take? I've been off the depo for 2 years now and they told me I might not have children at all (in-vitro possibly), so... never say never I guess :) best of luck!

 

Michelle - January 25

B'Lana.. U are such a nice person! Umm I was taking Alesse 28. I had been on the pill for about 2 years. We have no coverage of any kind so my mom was paying for them. I got off the pill since my boyfriend and I had broken up this summer. We got back together and I just never got on the pill again. I know that we would be fine and all but we would simply both have to put off college for a while. I might not be 3 months pregnant. That is not what I meant. I must have worded my question wrong. I could be about a month or so since my boyfriend and I had s_x and he did ejaculate in me. Then a few days after I had major period cramps but the period never came. Now I just pee all the time..

 

B'Lana - January 25

Michelle, I pee every hour... it's horrible! I use to pee in the morning (6:30) at 8am and then 6 pm and 10 pm...now every freaking hour! By the way you might not have to put college on hold if your mom is ok helping out... I am graduating next december and my husband....... summer of 06 i think... But I am planning to take summer courses at night if baby arrives (about October if I got pg when I think I did) then I have only 3 months to suffer through with only 6 hours a week away, that's b/c I cannot take any online courses my senior year. are you Freshman in college? you might get away with 9 months of intense study and then online cla__ses for a semester... My mom stays home, so I hope she could care for it. I can't put the baby on my husban though... he's doing his graduate stuff, so it would not be good to overload him, he already works too much... Your bf though could take a lot of loans for school and be taking 12 credit hours and work a lot on the weekends and after school. Most collegest actually have possitions for students at a very good pay, like dorm desk duty- you het paid to sit at night and do nothing... :) There are TONES of opportunities, and if you talk to the financial aid advisor and explain that you have a baby- it always works! Best regards!

 

Michelle - January 25

I am in my first year of college. This is my second semester. I am doing fine and the girl I come to school with (which has been my friend forever) has a 2 year old daughter. She is a great mother and she was only 17 when she had her baby. She is pulling through in college and she is actually keeping up very good marks. We do have a great financial aid here.. Thanks again!

 

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