Round Two

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kari - July 10

Well this is our second month of ttc. I believe I was pregnant last month, and I think I lost it...the cramps were unbearable and cycle was way heavy. My doctor gave me the go ahead to start again this month....not sure when I'll ovulate but they told me to start on cycle day 12 and ttc every other day....so it looks like the 17th will be my week. I'll keep you all updated. I am scared, and probably won't take a test until I am waaayyy late.....I don't want to find out again early and then the same thing happen. Anyone else's week the 17th?

 

kari - July 11

bump

 

Sam - July 11

Relax this is only your 2nd month sometimes people don't get pregnant right a way I have been trying for over 5 years and I hate it when people say they have been trying for only a couple months and they sound fustrated relax they say if you have unprotected s_x for more then 1 year and do not concieve then you might have a problem and sould see a doctor so don't think about it and I bet it will happen Good Luck and BABY DUST~*+~*+~*+

 

kari - July 11

I think I am pretty relaxed for my situation....it was confirmed I did conceive....hcg was definitely produced, I showed my doctor the 3 tests I took at home, that were positive, told him all of my symtoms and how it felt when I thought it was my regular cycle but it was not. I have two children already, so I knew I was pregnant. I did not have any problems conceiving them and have never experienced anything like this before....I am looking on the bright side, trying not to think about it too much. I did get the go ahead to start trying again though. So when it happens it happens. I was simply posting an update that's all. Sorry if it bothered you, however, I am not at all frustrated, a little sad yes, but not frustrated. Heck I don't have time to get wrapped up in losing this one when I have two toddlers to chase. Maybe that's a good thing. I can't help but think about it though. We are leaving the size of our family up to the One above...we are content either way, however anyone who has had a miscarriage is naturally sad. Again, I was just giving an update, not asking for advice. On to the next month!

 

Sam - July 11

I was not trying to offend you in any way just trying to help I know how it feels to have a miscarriage I had one in May and yes it is really sad so sorry for upsetting you in anyway so I am not gonna be in any of these forums anymore this was my first and last time posting here and all I did was try to help so Good Luck and hope you have your 3rd little one soon !!!

 

kari - July 11

I am not upset by any means, just felt the need to explain that's all. When you say you hate it when people say they have been only trying for a couple of months.....that's right we have, however, it didn't work out last month, so we'll keep on trying. We are pretty relaxed about it, we keep ourselves busy, busy with the kids, family, friends, and when it happens it will happen. So I know the next time, I won't rush out to go get an early results test....I'd rather not know and it be ok, than know and it not, atleast until I am very late and there is no denying it is when I'll test. Well good luck to you too. Oho and you didn't offend me, just thought I should explain a little more and it probably did seem shallow after you have been trying for 5 years. sorry 'bout that. Well all the best!

 

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