Scared Please Help

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Janice - September 24

im 19 and i just had s_x with my boyfriend..he withdrew...its been 6 days now since then, and my period has been on and off lately for the past 3 days im scared im still young and don't think i can handle the responsibilities yet..or let my family know..what can i do?

 

Grandpa Viv - September 24

Sorry to hear of your predicament, Janice. You could have taken Emergency Contraception the first few days after, but since the President and his religious right supporters discourage us teaching about that kind of thing in school, and make EC more difficult to get here than in other countries, I guess that option was not available. You might perhaps now be experiencing implantation bleeding, especially if it started earlier than expected. See if you get signs of early pregnancy in the next week, and if so then take a pregnancy test a week after that. Call 1-800-230-PLAN for your local Planned Parenthood information center. Good luck!

 

Samantha - September 24

hey i am 17 i am soo scared i dont know what to do.. i have not got my period yet.. an it is almost the end ofthe month.. how would i know if i am pergnant

 

Kirsten - September 24

Why do people feel ready for s_x and not ready to be parents? They go hand in hand. If you're not ready for one then you're not ready for the other. No birth control is 100% (i.e. pill, condoms, patch). And the withdrawl method is not a method. Prec_m can make you pregnant too. Both should take a test.

 

Baby Sox - September 24

Janice, it may be too soon to freak out. Take a test next week. Discuss the "what ifs" with your boyfriend just in case. Good luck, Hon!! Don't let anyone put you down- almost everyone has been there!!!

 

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