SO SICK OF NEG AFTER NEG Anyone Eles

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wantingbabytwo - November 19

i don't think that i can do this to myself every month it is to depressing and having to buy 3-5 test every month i think WTF i'm sorry i just don't know who much longer i can do this !!

 

milwaukee30 - November 19

I know...it can be nightmarish. You have probably heard this a thousand times and it is so cliche but try to just let go and wait for the missed period. Keep busy and try to keep it out of your mind. I am horrible too though so this I am sure was not at all helpful.

 

MAC_33 - November 19

Just know that you're not alone...I've already had 3 BFNs this month and each one is harder and harder to accept. Just keep the end result fresh in your mind. The struggle to become pregnant is worth the reward of a child. It will happen!

 

wantingbabytwo - November 19

i already got my neg hpt and my neg blood work so i think i might take a few months off and see what happens

 

lillybug - November 19

I think you should take the rest and just not evern think about getting pg. You might end up pg when you aren't even trying.

 

GiannaJ - November 19

I totally hear what you are saying. It can get very trying when it seems as though other people are getting pregnant left and right and it is so hard for you. I went to a baby shower on Saturday for a girl who is having her second unplanned baby. She is due literally any day and hasn't gotten anything ready, bought anything, is not that excited, etc. It was hard, and I have no shame admitting it. There were also three relatives/close family friends at the shower who recently found out they were pregnant. I am happy for them but it doesn't change the fact that it just seems to come easier for other people. I suggest you not test until you have a missed period. It seems hard but this is coming from someone who every month thought she had tons and tons of symptoms (sore bbs, cramping, fatigue, naseau, etc.) and then every month got multiple BFNs and then AF. It sucks. It took me a while but now DH and I just BD for fun and enjoy ourselves and try not to think about it. It was difficult to re-train myself at first but now I don't read into every little symptom. I got tired of being disappointed and then was also mildly embara__sed each month that I swore I must be and wasn't. You are definately not alone and can easily drive yourself crazy. It's very hard not to when you want it so badly. The 2WW seems to take FOREVER!

 

Bren1367 - November 19

I am sooo sick of bfn's every month. I don't even test every month but when I get AF, it's the same as a bfn. I'm sooo sad this month. I was really hoping to get pg again. I have been ttc for 67 months and we have tried the 'not trying' thing but it doesn't work for me because I know when I'm ovulating due to cm and timing. I'm usually not to bummed so I don't know what's going on with me this time. I normally just say 'OK, it's on to next month' but for some reason today I am really upset. I haven't even started yet but I am having my normal pre-period cramps in my lower back and it sucks big time. Maybe that's why I'm upset, because I'm in pain. LOL! Sorry if I am rambling. Just needed to vent a little.

 

lillybug - November 19

I have had 4 BFN's this month so I know what it is like also. I'm tired and fustrated. Gianna I know what you're talking about because I'm a god-mother to my friends child who didn't even want a child and got pg so fast. I hate when i see these girls PG so young and don't even care about that child or all the PGnany things, when we all want children and still can not get PG! Brings tears sometimes

 

anamaria - November 19

OMG I am right with you. I got AF on Friday and I didn't realize how depressed and sad I would be. I am just coming out of it. Let's all just keep at it. Hey can anyone do the math for me? I got AF on the 16th...I am regular 26 or 28...I forget...but always on time...what date should I start ttc? This is my first official month of ttc...before we were just not NOT trying...if you know what I mean.

 

GiannaJ - November 19

I am right there with you Lilly - I finally had to remove myself a little bit but it makes it hard considering I have been to about 6 baby showers in the last six months with about 4 more to go by the beginning of next year. And every time I go everyone asks " And what about you guys - when do you want to start having kids? It's time to get started" and I always say "We are happy with things as they are right now but we do think about it for the near future." I don't want to tell them we have been trying because then they will just say "It will happen when it is supposed to" and blah blah - I know all that already and don't want any advice or people on "baby watch" as I call it. ANAMARIA - If I were you, I would try to BD every other day starting a few days after your period ends. That way you can hit the 14 days after AF date as well as any other dates in case you ovulate a little early or a little later. :-)

 

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