Something For Everyone

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Eager to get Preggo - February 23

I just have a topic and would like to discuss it. Did you notice that girlz (12-17), not married can get preggo so much faster than us, married older ladies? Isnt it frustrating? Boy, does it make me mad.... Its like that 13 year old does not want that baby and goes for abortion and we can not concieve.... What do you think? Baby dust to everyone!!! Please NO CRITISISM, just wanted to see if you were a little frustrated about this issue.... or maybe I am the only one :)

 

SugarPie - February 23

I'm 28.. it has crossed my mind, but you know.. it is what it is. I can't slight women and curse the universe because I didn't have successful pregnancies prior. I think what is difficult (and this is what you may be trying to convey) is that.. here we're older and have come to the decision that "this is the time" to get preggers and we can't control our bodies, meanwhile there are some young women out there, having the time of their lives and often do not want children as they behave a bit haphhazard with their bodies and can get knocked up just by looking at a p___s. That's where I think the annoyance and frustration lies. Here we think we've done things one way and always believed it was "the right way" (and there truly isn't a "right way for anything) and they're doing things totally opposite what we were raised to do and they're having all of the great luck in the world. I think it comes down to woulda, shoulda, and coulda... at least we can be a support to them and more importantly to each other.

 

ANON - February 23

DID YOU SEE THE POST FROM THE GIRL ASKING WHO THE DADDY IS I FELT SICK!!!!!!! SHE AINT EVEN WORRIED ABOUT IT, ITS OBVIOUS SHE GOES OUT AT WEEKEND AND BEDS MEN WITH NO PROTECTION AND THEN ASKS US WHO THE DAD IS HAHA

 

To Anon - February 23

Get a grip you stupid woman......what made you feel sick - she is a dumb girl who had unprotected s_x with 2 different men a week apart...she didn't chop a puppy's head off..... God, some people are so holier than thou.....and by the way...the thread is called something for everyone....and is about women getting pregnant easily....learn to read sweetheart.

 

chriss - February 23

I am 32 and getting VERY frustrated. I also hear/read about the 12-17 year olds who are getting preggo. At seventeen, I was more concerned about getting my homework done then which boy I would date that weekend. As women get older (over 30) her chances of conceiving drop. It seems that the age of 17-25 (approx) are prime fertility years. It's sad really!!! For those of us who wait so that we can give our children the opportunities that maybe we didn't have, we are being punished in someway. I have a great husband, a beautiful two story house in the country, both myself and my husband have great jobs which means that our kids (if we so luck) will have a good education, be able to play any sport that they want (if they want) and know that their parents WANTED and LOVE them! Society has really failed our teenagers. Sorry to sound like Dr. Phil, but it really all does start at home!!! Sorry to vent!!!

 

Melanie - February 23

I agree with you. It is so frustrating that we are trying for months on end to get pregnant and these girls get pregnant so easily. I just turned 30 and have been married for 6 years, and i have a 2 yr old son. I was really hoping to have my second child before i turned 30 but that hasn't happened. We have been ttc for a year now. I have 5 friends right now that are all in their mid 20's and pregnant. They all got pregnant with in 3 months of ttc. I am trying my best to be happy for all of them but deep down i'm so upset that it hasnt' happened to me.

 

chriss - February 23

melanie. I can sympathize with you, please don't be sad, it will happen!! Think if it this way, for the moment you have a beautiful little boy to love. I don't have ANY children yet, I always thought, ok I will get my career kickstarted pay off some student loans etc. there's lots of time to have a kid. But that's not necessarily the case. Alot of women don't realize just how hard it is to actually get pregnant, it is a miracle that some of us take for granted. Cheer up, God has a plan for all of us!!

 

brandy - February 23

well ya know women have been having children at that age since the beginning of time...our bodies are young, fresh and our periods are new ...i think with every period it gets harder and harder, i had unprotected s_x once at 18 and got pregnant, then again at 20 but now at 25 i have to try fertility drugs...

 

KEEKEE - February 23

WHEN YOU ARE TTC,A COARSE FRUSTRATION DO KICK IN. WHEN I WAS TRYING TO GET PREGNANT AGAIN,ALL I SAW WAS PREGNANT TEENS. I JUST WANTED TO CRY. AFTER 2 YEARS, I GAVE UP TRYING TO GET PREGNANT. ENDED MY MARRIAGE AND WENT ON WITH MY LIFE. 6 YEARS LATER REMARRIAGED AND GOT PREGNANT ON MY HONEYMOON! ANYTHING COULD HAPPEN AND REMEMBER NOT TO GIVE UP. GOD ONLY GIVE US AS MUCH AS WE CAN HANDLE. BABY DUST TO EVERYONE!!!!!

 

Eager to get preggo - February 23

Yes, God gives us only what we can handle, but sometimes it just seems like I can not handle anything, anymore :)

 

JJ - February 23

its not all young girls that can get pregnant easy ive been trying for 1 an a half years with no success. im nearly 20.

 

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