Time To Start A New Thread Alexis

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Alexis - April 11

Hello Ladies! I'm so Glad you're back Keekee we missed you. I'm sorry about your son I'm glad he is better. We were wondering what had happened to you! Anyway I'm happy to see that you have not lost your sense of humor. Estee- Don't be so hard on yourself all will come in due time.At least you still have not had a period,try to get a blood test that will give you peace of mind. Jules- My bronchitis is gone and I now know that all my (symptoms) were a result of the antibiotics because I have not had any lightheadedness,headache or nausea. I am only tired I'm starting to have lot's of trouble waking up in the mornings. My mom and pretty much everyone know's now everyone was shocked like I was at first but then they were all Congratulating us. Anyhoo I now have to clean out my closet again and figure out what I can possibly fit into in the awkward stages when you're too small for maternity and too large for your own clothes. I am finding that my clothes is getting snug. Maybe because I'm giving in on all the sweet cravings like cookies,soda,chips and dip. I never eat all that junk, I went on a strict diet a while back and have tried to follow it since I stopped but now I want all kinds of sweets. Chocolate covered donuts, chessecake, and mainly soda. That's a bad habit that I want to get rid of. Anyhoo I'm good here. I gotta get back to work now so I'll catch ya later.

 

KEEKEE - April 11

Hi, Alexis!!!!! Nice hearing from you. My angels are taking a nap. So, I am reading different posts to see what I missed.I missed a lot. Your BFP!!!!!!! YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!!!!!!! I am so happy for you.I hope the morning sickness is not killing you. So, How are you feeling? ..................I still have all this annoying stuff going on with me. Lighter shorter periods with spotting a few days later. I still have nausea off and on. My lower back and b___sts is killing me. Now to make manners worst, I have swollen feet!!!.....Still no answers, and (-) pregnancy test. So my doctor said something about a chemical pregnancy. In other words, your body goes through pregnancy and there may be something wrong and tries to stop the pregnancy. Crazy....Huh........Right now I am waiting for a complete exam, to get all my answers.I cant wait!!!!!!!!!.............Oh, I bought maternity clothes for the GAP. The clothes dont look like maternity clothes, so you can wear them in the beginning.It worked for me, try it.......Enjoy your snacks and Holla Back!!!!!!!

 

Estee P - April 11

Hey Alexis! Glad you're better girl! Thanks for starting the new thread, the other one was getting too long! I also just wanna thank you and Jules for sticking by me with all my stuff, you're really great! I know I'm emotionally very draining on you guys, and you never complain, you are always friendly, supportive and encouraging! Thanks!

 

KEEKEE - April 11

Hi, Estee P, Did you read my last post for you? It is under the last thread. Do what makes you happy. You will love the baby, no manner how you make or get the baby. The baby wont care. Good luck and make the choice that is right for you...................SMOOCHES

 

Alexis - April 11

Estee I just read the post that Keekee made it's true no matter in what way you make the baby it is yours and you would love it no differently than it was made the old fashioned way. I know of someone who conceived after 5 years with injections either way the pregnancy and everything else is real and it is your expierience. Given that you don't do surrogacy. But even with that you would have a baby made by you and hubby. I'm sorry, I'm going on and on but I strongly believe that you will get your positive and just rest a__sured that we are here for you to vent and to talk to. Keep the faith and try and think of yourself not ttc I think people get pregnant easier when they are not agonizing over every little thing, because they are not so stressed. Take me for example I got pregnant when I least expected it. Just know I'm praying for you.And I'm sending Loads of Baby Dust your way!!! You too Jules and Mandy don't think I've forgotten about you. Much love and I'll chat Later. ~Alexis~

 

Jules - April 11

Heya Gals! True words, Alexis and KeeKee - very true! Anyhoo - it is late here and I wanted to sign off for the night - so just wanted to say HIYA and hope you're all doing okay. Glad you're feeling better, Alexis, and that it was just the antibiotics. KeeKee - hope you're doing okay and that your doc sorts it out for you once and for all - when are you getting to see her? ...Estee - keep the faith - we're not going anywhere!!! MandyD - are you still doing okay? Wazzup gal? ...It's so good to have everyone back - ooh - except Jen - I do wonder how she's getting along? I hope it wasn't her kidneys.....poor girl.I really hope she got her BFP. I send big loves to all of you! KeeKee - thanks for the laffs - you and Tim Allen AKA Mr FixIt are a hoot! (So is Sheba!) And Alexis - I say "Viva Junk Food! Viva!" Don't worry about all the sweet stuff for now ;) Big loves - chat to ya layder xxxxx

 

Estee P - April 12

Oh! Yes I saw the reply on the previous thread, thank you very much Keekee, Alexis and Jules! I just went to bed early last night. I know you girls are right about my loving the baby all the same, it's just a matter of getting myself into the idea of superficial baby-making. I'm working on it ..... xxx

 

KEEKEE - April 12

Hello!!!!!! Spring is here. I am so happy it is not cold anymore.I hate the winter!!!! Now I am waiting for 70 degree days!! Can't wait. I am counting the days...............I been fighting nausea all night. Crazy Huh?. I can't wait to see this doctor. Friday the 29th of this month!!! yaaaaaahh!!!!!.......I have read other threads with other women who is having periods and think they are pregnant. One post, even said she is having her second period and is 2 months pregnant. How crazy is that????? The different between me and the other ladies is I was not TTC. I wish I didn't know my body so well. I could just annoy what is going on and forget about it. Ha Ha!!! That will not happen. I going to try to relax and enjoy spring until my doctor's appointment..........I would be funny it the doctor tells me I am pregnant!!!! I think I would faint, since I had 2(-) hpt. It would bring back memories when I was pregnant with my oldest.....................How is everyone doing this morning???? Keep in touch.....................BABY DUST!!!!!!!!.....................Smooches

 

Jules - April 12

Heya KeeKee! Sorry you've had a rough night - hope you're feeling better this morning. Well, we're going into Winter here! Autumn is officially here and it's starting to get chilly! The days are still nice and sunny but the nights are still a little cold. Nothing like where you are, tho! We don't get the snow and all that! Not in Johannesburg - but where I used to live (the Drakensberg) in the mountains it would snow and get really cold. Although Johannesburg still hits sub-zero temps when it wants to.....Oh well - Winter brings on a whole new life of its own in our house. The cats snuggle up and fight for the only heater in the house (we really need to get another one!) - and Dh and I get booted to the back of the line for any heat from it! Hope you ladies are all well - it's 5pm here SA time. Love to ya. xxxxx

 

KEEKEE - April 12

Well Jules, I get snow storms and very cold days here. I live in WI. Snow, ice storms, and frozen roads is common here. That is way I count the days until spring!!!!. When it gets cold, we turn the heat up. Our heating costs is terrible!!! About 350 to 400 dollars a month!!! Another reason I dont like winter. The Gas company loves to over charge.Damn Shame.............It is 11:45 am here....Wow, a huge time difference!!!!!!!!.....................HOLLA BACK Y'ALL...............Smooches

 

KEEKEE - April 12

Oh, I forgot to mention I found out my 13 years old cousin is pregnant. She hide the pregnancy until she was 5 months.She walking around with no shame. ...........A CRIME SHAME!!!!!!!............What will she do with a baby? I feel sorry for the child. To bad there is no law against this. ........If she was a good student and make a mistake I would feel differently. This little girl is wild and has no respect for adults.She abuse her body with drugs and hardly attend school. I dont think she made it out of 5th grade...........SORRY GIRLS..... I had to vent..............SEE YA

 

Jules - April 12

Hey KeeKee - that is a shame. Sounds like she and the baby will need a lot of help and support. Her Mom must be really upset by all this? Well, I do wish her much love and strength cos she's gonna need it to get thru this - it's not easy having a baby even when you're married and life is bliss! Imagine when at 13 and single, with no job, etc! And the drugs? I hope she's stopped or had help for that problem. So so sad, Keeks - I really feel for her. My Dh and I both had cousins who had drug probs and the one is now completely schizophrenic. It's a tough habit to break - a bad lifestyle to get out of. Poor poor girl. Sending you and her and all her family BIG LOVE and hope xxxxx

 

Alexis - April 12

Hello Ladies, Well today is crazy Tuesday, I'm usually pretty busy today so forgive me if I don't keep up. Anyhoo I'm doing well very well only symptom is fatigue. Hubby is great kids are great my dd's birthday party is on Sat. I'm going to be very busy. Keekee sorry about you little cousin I hope she has someone to talk with and to give her some good advice.Jules- how are things with the business? Mandy have not heard from you, where are you? Estee I hope you are doing well and you're not feeling blue.Keep your head up. well I'll talk to you girls later.

 

Jules - April 12

Heya Alexis! Good to hear from ya. Glad you're feeling better and wish you a happy day for Dd's party ;) The business is driving me nuts at the mo. My partners are only interested in making huge money and are threatening to either dissolve the business or, if we keep going, to reduce my salary! It's such a cheek - cos I'm really the only one who does any work here as they have other business interests. Anyhoo - I have told them that for the work that I do I will not accept a salary cut and that they should dissolve the company and I can go it alone. They are causing so much stress in our lives - it affects Dh too cos he has partnered with them in another business. They havno idea what they're doing to us. Actually, Dh and I were talking about postponing our TTC efforts cos until we know where we stand financially, etc - how can we bring a baby into the equation? I could scream over the whole thing - really! Anyhoo - I know that my life is all in God's hands and that He will lead us where He wants us to be and that He will bless our work and our family in His time. So I can't really stress about it all that much, although it's hard not to ;) Sorry for the long and negative post - but I also needed to vent! And my business partners suck ;) (And they're all men! Whaddya know ;) Actually, one of my gal friends who had a MC last year (triplets) wants to partner up with me - and she just found out that she is preggers! Am so excited for her. Maybe she and I can join up and do our own little thang.....and she so wants me to join her on the preggers journey ;) Oh well - again - sorry for being the grump - you gals are the good stuff!!! Love ya xxxxx

 

KEEKEE - April 12

Hey..........Jules, Sorry to hear about your work problems. You are one brave women!!!! I hope everything works out in your favor..............Alexis try small naps throughout the day. It helps................................I am praying for my cousin. I tried talking to her, but at 13 she thinks she know everything....At first, I was going to help her, but I think it would sat a bad example for the other young girls in my family. I thnk she needs to give the baby up for adoption. So the child can have a fight chance..........It seems like pregnancy is the in thing for these teenage girls here.............It is very sad to see such young girls pregnant when they have their whole lives ahead of them...........................Thanks for the advice!!!!!! Talk to you soon...............

 

Jules - April 12

Love to ya! And lots of prayers too ;)

 

Alexis - April 12

Jules I'm sorry to hear about your partnership with those guys,it's so weird to see you vent like that because you're always the cheerleader. But girl go on and get it out! I myself think I'm getting sick again from my tonsils this time, they are hurting and I have alot of drainage. I hope I get better before the party. Keekee- I wish I could take naps I'm at work the whole day so I don't think my boss would like it if I were to go catch some z's. And when I get home I have to make dinner so I end up going to bed around 9:30 to wake up at 6:30. That's still about 9 hours but I'm soooo sleepy. ;) Well girls I'm gonna go to lunch.

 

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