To All The Frustrated Women Out There

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Mimi ( again ) - March 2

Hello all, it's me again, Mimi, ( her again ? yeah me again ! ) Well, after all these worries and pg signs, short & light periods and my belly growing out, it seems as if i'm simply crazy ! It must have been in my head.I can't be bothered to go to see the doc anymore as i am probably black-listed there ,LOL and the doc will soon send me to a circus . I don't know why my belly is so rounded but ...so be it ! The worse part is that I soooo desparately want to be preggo,i even wonder if i'm fertile at all.It took a whole yr to conceive my son and i was only 22.Now i'm going to be 27 and it's the same story all over again, i know it's only been 5 mths since i came off BCP and still no luck.IT SUCKS ,big time !! Sorry again for the long post !

 

Jules - March 2

Hey Mimi - are you saying that you had negative tests? If you ARE preggos how far along d'ya think you'd be? Some ladies (I've read) have not had BFPs until 5 months in! If your belly is big surely they can do a scan? Sorry if you've posted all this info before. Just thought I'd check in.

 

Mimi - March 2

Hey Jules, thx for ur reply. Yes i had about 10 -ve all after the others. I went to see my doc a few times asking why my periods were shorter & lighter month after month but she has nothing to say but to get a preggo test ( which i know will be -ve ).My belly has always been as flat as Jennifer lopez's and now it's rounded ,i'd be about 12 weeks i think. I told the nurse that i feel bubbles ,flutters in my belly and she almost talked to me as if i was crazy, asking me how desperately i want to be preggo, i thought i didn't but i got to the idea that i was due to the size of my belly and was getting happy about it. I'm tired of ppl asking me if i'm pregnant or them congratulating me. Anyway...thx and sorry for those who read me over and over again ( and can't be bothered anymore ).Thx Jules.

 

Jules - March 2

Hey - is that a regular doc yo've been going to? (md)? perhaps you should see your obgyn instead - if you haven't already, I mean - this is their speciality! And then how about a blood test? Those work wonders when all pee sticks fail! ;)

 

Me again - March 2

Yeah Jules, a doc she's always been c___p and i can't see an obgyn without my doc sending me .Blood test sounds good too but again she says dipstick, no need for bloodtest she says.I think i could be a doc as well if that's what being a doc is all about .

 

Jules - March 2

Mimi - you've got to make a plan here, girl! I'm not sure how it works in the US (presuming that's where you are) but perhaps you could go to the emergency room and ask for help there? (Don't wanna sound melodramatic) But you SOUND like you ARE preggos and your doc sounds c___p (like you said) and you need to be taking care of your baby and preparing for it, if you are!!! Please - go see another doc and lose this c___ppy one that's giving you the runaround! It's not worth it.....

 

a - March 2

If it's beyond 6 weeks, even a normal pelvic exam can feel the obvious enlarged uterus. So if you are examed and normal, just set your mind into peace. Try next month.

 

La Rae - March 2

Go to your local Health Dept. Get a blood test done there. Call first and see what days they do pg tests - blood specifically. My local Health Dept. only does them on Tuesdays and Thursdays. Good Luck!

 

Becky - March 2

Wow Mimi! it sounds like we go to the same dr! *me rolls eyes* They frustrate me soo much.

 

Mimi - March 2

NO, i'm not in the US , im in the UK and the whole world knows their medical system is c___p .Unfortunately u cannot just change ur doctor , they won't take u , it's ur local one only due to overpopulation. I tried to at least get her to drop me a hint , what could the tiredness due to and my growing belly, not cyst ,not fibroid,WHAT THEN ?? ARGHHH....( sorry sorry , i got carried away! ) I'll just pop in to the hospital pretending to have something and demand an ultrasound( that's the best plan i came up with , pathetic ,huh ?). Becky , are u in the uK too? They are c___p here aren't they ? Frustartion is a nice word to use .They p***ss me ***ff ! a, i know u right, but if it is not pregnancy , something causes my belly to swell and that's what i want to find out.Doctors !!!!!!( And they spend yrs to sudy , not sure what now !)

 

Jules - March 2

Mimi - seriously - go to the emergency room (or Planned Parenthood?) They cannot turn you away! DEMAND that scan! Becky - you okay?

 

Mimi - March 2

Thx y'all for ur support and for listening to my mourning,Jules i will go get my scan,at least if it's not pregnancy well i'll know for sure and if it is,well,it's about time that this baby get treated fairly ! Good luck to u all TTC (or not ).Becky, what's going on with u ?

 

Jules - March 2

Mimi - please please let us know what the verdict is! Take care - Jules

 

~m~ - March 2

Hi Mimi! A tummy like J-LO??? Do you have the boody too? LOL Just kiddin! I would say pull out the dirty tricks and go to the ER. Tell them that you got a positive hpt but are experiencing some cramping and spotting. Then they'll HAVE to run some tests, even if only a blood test. Make sure they do a quant_tative one so that it will tell you exactly how much hcg you have in your system. Best of luck to you girl! :o)

 

Mimi - March 2

Hey ~m~, LOL well i have more b___bs than her but less bum than her ! LOL But i'm very slim by nature and beleive it or not although i have 2 kids already , i am one very blessed w/m who had a slim tummy ,b4, not so big during preg, and flat again after. So i know some is up ! I'll let u know the verdict ! ( LOL if i'm guilty of craziness or not ).Take care all .

 

Becky - March 2

I'm in the US... I'm just having a hard time with my Dr. I actually just changed Dr.s a year or so ago, and I had only seen her for one other thing, so we don't really know each other. I get the feeling that she and the nurse are just humoring me. It is very annoying. Like when I ask them What ELSE could cause so and so symptoms..."oh...maybe you caught one of those bugs that are going around... try again and come back next month if you miss your [af]." Next month?! I could be in my 4th month by then! arrrg! Fiance keeps telling me to change drs... I think I am going to ...

 

Mimi - March 3

Hey Becky , Oh definately , change ur dr NOW, that's an order ! LOL just kidding , but seriously, why a professionnal should humour anybody ? Don't they know that it's different from w/m to w/m, they are so uptight! It's scary.If we can't rely on our doctor when we're not ourselves, then who should we turn to then ? I really feel for u ,especially if ur 4 mths or so.What does ur b/f say ? Did he notice changes in ur body as well ?Don't worry when they see us in the labour room, indeed they will know we were not crazy,and we'll see who has the last laugh! haha... Keep me posted and take care.

 

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