To LIN And Please Only LIN

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jenn_ns - January 24

You had posted: "You obviously don't care at all how difficult it is for those ttc for a long time, but it's the most painful thing in the world to have to read posts every single day where people are doing roll calls of this months' bfps..." I think this post was directed towards me for starting the monthly BFP counts. First of all I want to say I'm sorry for hurting you like this. When I started doing it, I thought it would be a great place to keep track of everyone, after all, we are all supporting each other. Then I had a second thought that it may be too much for some people (myself included) to take. I've had a m/c 2 years ago, and ever since then I do have a streak of jealousy whenever I hear of someone getting pregnant. The closer they are to me, the more jealous I get. Anyway, I will resign from the monthly count, and I'm so sorry for hurting you like this. It certainly was not my intention, Lin. Thanks for reading... ~Jenn

 

jenn_ns - January 24

I, for one, think you are an a__set around here with your good advice and you're always helping those who need it. I don't think you deserve the unfair treatment you've been getting these days.

 

LIN - January 24

Jenn, please don't misunderstand that post. It was not meant to be a crack at you at all, and I wasn't suggesting that you shouldn't start such threads. I recognize that most people here aren't dealing with infertility, and I don't expect others to walk on eggshells just because you and I and a few others are. Please don't stop that thread, because it is so encouraging for so many. It is not out of place here, and I can easily skip it if I don't want to read it. I only mentioned that one to try to get the point across about how many threads that there are that are difficult to read for those who've been trying a long time. Thanks for the kind words, by the way!

 

jenn_ns - January 24

Thanks so much, Lin, for hearing me out. We have our good days and our bad days, right? (I think I started that thread on a good day!) I have been dealing with my jealousy issues with my SIL, whe she was PG with their first. The minute I saw my new neice (a year ago) I instantly fell in love with her the moment I saw her. Luckily she lives near me, so i can visit often! Now my SIL is pg with their 2nd child, and I find myself dealing with jealousy again. It's very difficult, I know. I'll get over it... I always do. We WILL get what we deserve! I did not mean to hurt you by starting the bfp thread, and I'm glad you heard (read) me out. Thanks, Lin.

 

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