Want2beamummy

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tish - March 28

how's it going? has af showed up yet.

 

want2beamummy - March 28

Hi Tish, thanks for asking. No af hasn't showed up yet, it was due yesterday. I am going to take a hpt in the morning with my first morning urine. So fingers crossed! I'll let you know how I get on on this post. ;) How are you doing? How long have you been ttc?

 

gem - March 28

good luck.x.

 

Lin - March 28

Good luck!

 

tish - March 28

i've been ttc for a year. took a blood test today. i am 18 days late with bfn this morning. should get the results on thurs day or friday. i am so nervous.

 

want2beamummy - March 29

Hi Tish, you must be going out of your mind by now. Good luck, I really hope the blood test comes back with a bfp! Thanks for the support girls. I had a bfn this morning! I am very confused! My af was due on the 27th and hasn't come yet. I had spotting 7dpo for 2 days. I've noticed blue veins pop up on my bb's and I just feel pregnant! Am I an idiot?? Maybe it's all in my head and I'm just torturing myself, I don't think I can handle another bfn! They are so d__n depressing! My sister didn't get a bfp with her recent pregnancy until 25 dpo, and my other sister until 20dpo. I am now 15dpo. I guess I'm just hoping that low hcg levels run in the family! ;( Baby dust to you all.

 

rossgirl - March 29

want2beamummy-so sorry you had a bfn this morning...genetics often does play a role so try not to get TOO discouraged and again in a few days!!! I know the waiting is the hard part. If you want to talk...

 

want2beamummy - March 29

Thanks rossgirl, I really appreciate that. I am hoping that it just takes a while longer to show up with me like my sisters. My other sister (i have 4) has just told me today that she had a m/c on Monday, it was a surprise pregnancy, she already has 3 beautiful children. She is upset, understandably so we had a little cry together this afternoon. Here's me ttc and calling her with my upsets and she had her own. I felt guilty. She caught without even trying. She was too upset to tell me until today as she was hoping to wait until I was pregnant. Silly I know as we're so close so she could have told me immediately and I would have been there for her. So hoping that she'll be ok, and it's took my mind off things a bit. I emailed Cheri again on Monday but haven't heard back from her yet. What did she predict for you? I felt so low this morning after the bfn, I never ever realised how involved you get when ttc and how it can send you crazy at times. I'm going to test again on Sunday and hope for the best. Let me know how you're getting on too. xx

 

pinkie - March 29

hey want2beamummy, I was due around the same time and i also got a bfn this morning. and like you my af still hasnt come yet...let me know what happens with u...when do u plan on retesting if af doesnt come?

 

mamacita - March 29

want2be what test did u use?

 

rossgirl - March 29

want2beamummy- it can be so hard I know. A friend of mine just told me she was pregnant and she hesitated to tell me because of me ttc. It's great to avae people in your life who care about you so much that they want to shield you from added pain. Cheri told me April and Boy so maybe next month is my month. I asked her a 2nd time from a different email address and got the same prediction so who knows. It's so encouraging though for you that af still hasn't shown up. That's why I don't want you to lose heart yet...you've got family history on your side! I'm here...

 

Lin - March 29

Rossgirl, email addresses are normally set by default to show your name. Did you change it?

 

want2beamummy - March 29

Hi girls, just got home. I was out buying a present for my sister to cheer her up, she was delighted with it. I've left her in the arms of her dh and she's perked up a lot. ;) Hi Pinkie, that's good, maybe both of us still have hope for this month then. Have you had symptoms? Ever had a late af before? I'll be testing again on Sunday, and you? Best of luck to you! Mamacita, I used a First Response....what do you think? Hi Rossgirl, thanks for the words of encourangement. it's funny isn't it how other people feel for you when you're ttc, especially people who already have children as they have obviously been there and have the t-shirt! ;) Yes, it's lovely to know that our close ones love us so much and pray that we get what we want....a bundle of joy and a bundle of nappies! That is really encouraging that you emailed Cheri from a different address and got the same response! I considered doing that but then thought I'd be disheartened again if I got a totally different answer! Pathetic I know! LOL. Not that I am banking on her being right about me this month, it's just that we don't need any further disappointments do we, the BFN'S do that for us!!!! Lin, my different email addresses on aol do not show my name, only whatever screenname I have chosen for the email addresses. Thanks for the info on the thermo, I'll see how I get on with it. Roll on Sunday then so I can test again! Thanks girls, you wouldn't believe how much easier it is, all this waiting, with all you darlings! xx

 

rossgirl - March 29

Lin, yes I did change it.

 

pinkie - March 29

yes, i have been late before but not in a while and what really kind of thru me for a loop was that I had spotting. so we are kind of in the same boat except for that ur spotting came earlier than mine. as far as symptoms...not really sometimes i feel as though i may be having symptoms but then maybe think its all in my head because af is late ... i've been really tired lately and have no appet_te. and my b___bs are just now starting to feel achey when i lay on them and they are a bit heavier but also this could be a sign that af is going to show afterall...i just have to keep waiting...i also decided to retest sunday first thing in the morning... and what a co-inky-dink - i saw that you used first response, thats the one i used too.

 

want2beamummy - March 29

Hi pinkie, yes what a coincidence? What country are you in? I'm in the UK. Best of luck for you on Sunday. I heard that First Response could pick up before af was due, but that's just what it says on the packet! It's a con half the time to make you buy more and more tests! How many days past 'o' did you have spotting? It does sound like you have all the good symptoms, I know what you mean though, half the time I think they're in my head too! lol. Did you email Cheri at all, for a prediction? It's good fun and pa__ses the waiting time away too! I had the extremely heavy and sore b___bs a week after 'o', all week, I couldn't lay on them and they hurt just when I walked. They are fine now though, no pain. I have been having that feeling that af is coming, constantly. All day for the past 5/6 days, like a strong trickle down below, I dash to the bathroom and there's nothing there! ;( I have that wet feeling all the time this month. Have you felt anything like that?

 

pinkie - March 29

yes..i do get the feeling that af is coming too...and when i wipe, nothing...actuall, that just happened a little while ago lol!...i dont know who Cheri is but if you tell me i'll email and get a prediction...whats that all about anyhow?...i went to a website on sensitivity of hpt's yes, first response is supossed to be on of the more sensitive ones (15-25 mIU), but there was a variation on how well it worked by customer testimony i guess it depends on the person, i guess there no garuntee it will catch it early but its possible if ur hcg levels are high enough...heres the link http://www.fertilityplus.org/faq/hpt.html ...it was about 12 dpo when i started spotting... oh and im in the US

 

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