WANT ANOTHER BABY

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WANT BABY - January 26

i HAVE A 4YR OLD AND A 4 MO OLD. I WANT TO HAVE ANOTHER BABY!!! IS ANYONE IN THE SAME SITUATION???? I AM HAPPILY MARRIED AND WE ARE GOING TO HAVE ANOTHER ONE SOONER OR LATER SO WHY NOT NOW?? MY HUSBAND WANTS TO WAIT A LITTLE BUT I WANT TO GET PREGNANT THIS SUMMER..AM I CRAZY???

 

candy - January 26

i dont think ur crazy...i may be concidered crazy...i am 21 and have a 5 yr old and a 10 month old and am having another one...i am sooo happy but i have heard tons of horrible vulgar things toward me....but dont let anyone get to ya....and i am also happily married

 

ekay - January 26

I wouldn't say crazy, but I would definitely reconsider. I wanted another baby about the same time my baby was 1-4 months old. I think you just start to miss being pg. BUT think about the long run-a 14 month old and a newborn-yikes!!

 

Me too - January 27

OH Dear !!!! I am soooo happy to read ur post, u have no idea ! I thought i was the one crazy ! I have been trying over & over & over again to convince my husband to have another one,( NOW ). My kids will be 9 & 5 this yr, he definately wants another one , but NOT just now.ARGHH......... I'm 26 ( 27 this yr), so why not NOW ??? It makes me sad, angry & i resent him for that . the kids are getting big now and i don't think a big age gap b/w siblingsis good. My lil sis is 10 yrs younger than me & frankly i'm more of a young aunt to her than a big sis. However if i had a 4 mo old baby, i don't think i'd want another right away, but i can definately understand ur frustration. Anyway, thx for reading me, i needed to vent. Good luck to u & keep us posted!

 

WANT BABY - January 27

I am going to reconsider and plan it for when my 4mo old truns about a yr then I am going to start trying to get pregnant this summer! So I can have a baby in april-may!!! and Me Too I thought my 4 yr old and 4 mo old was too far apart I would tell my husband to get on it!!!

 

Me too - January 27

Hey want baby ! Yeah it sounds less tiring if u do it this way, at least u can fully enjoy ur 2 babies without the stress of another pregnancy, at least not for now.( well, that's my opinion, so don't mind me ! ) As for me...well, i begged him because by the time he agrees for me 2 get pregnant & give birth my eldest will be ..what ? 10,11 at least maybe more.He always told me it was better for us to have kids very young, now i reminded him of what he said 5 yrs ago, he's now telling me that @36,37 i will still be young to have kids ! uh??? don't think so. He says a baby right now will disrupt HIS plans etc...I said i was willing to put my career on hold for a while ( since he said that would be the only way he would agree ), and now he disagrees too... ARGHHHHHHHH............. I'm way too frustrated !!! sorry again for the long post.

 

tiffani - January 27

I think it's great that you decided to wait until your 4 month old turns 1. Let the baby be the baby for a little while. Enjoy all those amazing milestones that happen in the first year before you get pregnant, because you'll be too tired to when you are pregnant again. It's also a good idea to give you body a rest and time to revive itself from the last pregnancy. Now you have something to look forward to, and it's a lot easier to be pregnant in the winter than the summer, so you're timing will be great. Good luck.

 

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