What Should She Do ANyone

12 Replies
Steve - March 13

okie me and my gf had s_x today and i had a condom on.. but sicne im used to the pull out method when i came.. i pulled out.. guess it was a good thing cuz condom broke adn im not sure when it broke.. her period should be here around the 19th-21st.. my questions is... will her period come.. since it's so clsoe..,.. and should she start her pill or wait?

 

em - March 13

sounds like she may be ovulating around this time. hard to tell if her period will come or not. she really can not take a test until the first day of a missed period.

 

steve - March 14

if her period coems should she start takign her bc pills?

 

Bethany - March 14

My advice to you is that one get a pregnancy test and if she is pregnant, support her through the pregnancy. My other advice is that you all should refrain from s_xual activity until marriage. If you do refrain you won't have to worry about condoms, birth control pills or pregnancy. You can just enjoy the relationship and have a chance to spend time doing other things...like going out to dinner, having long conversations about things you all like...DO things outside of the bedroom that will help you get to know each other's likes and dislikes even more. Be each other's best friends FIRST and then when you're married your s_x life will be better for it. (This is coming not just from the fact that I waited, but from what a bunch of people have said to me).

 

em - March 14

Bethany--we are so on the same wavelink!! You are so right!

 

Bethany - March 14

Em-- Do I know you??? LOL!

 

em - March 14

sure seems like we should!!

 

Bethany - March 14

Em--Well, if you have Yahoo Messenger or AOL Messenger let me know.

 

em - March 14

Bethany--my yahoo id is starkissed_82

 

steve - March 14

i see where everyoen is coming at adn also see the advice.. they are great.. but ny question haven't been answered... so anyone please?? if her period coems should she start takign her bc pills?

 

tara - March 14

Hi Steve. She has 72 hours to take the morning after pill. This pill will help prevent pregnancy but it only works if taken with-in 72 hours of having s_x. So you should go in with her (if she wants you to) to get this. After this when her period comes she should start taking birth control pill, or the patch. Although you should know that no birthcontrol is 100% - and you should be using a condom as well. This way if one protection fails the other is there to protect you guys. The birth control and the patch take up to 3 months to be come 98% effective - so please use a condom if you are not planing to have a baby soon. Good luck.

 

Jen - March 14

There is no harm with continuing taking the pills on her regular schedual. The pill just produces the same hormones that a womans body produces when she is pregnant. That makes her body think she is already pregnant, therefor, when taken correctly will be 98% affective. I think she should take a test and go from there.

 

Bethany - March 15

Steve-- I've given you the answer: refrain from s_xual activity before marriage. So take my answer to mean: NO she should NOT go back on the pill. I've read up on birth control pills and they can put a woman in all kinds of risks, including the risk of b___st cancer. Do you really want your girlfriend to go through that risk? Someone once had warning sheet from birth control pills...and that thing was incredibly long--longer than most medical warning labels!

 

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