Why Oh Why Did DH All The Sudden Okay TTC

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Megs - January 17

Ever since DH came to me with him really wanting to have a baby and start TTC I have been thinking NON Stop about TTC and babies and s_x and more babies!!! I want to pounch on DH like every second but he's not even here to do that!! UGH! Why couldn't he of at least waited until he was done with training... NOOOOO, instead I've gotta wait around until the wekeend to get me some! :-( I am SOOO wanting a baby though right now. Have been, but I was able to kinda push it aside with more "logic" then feelings. LOL What to do now??? Oh, what to do???????? Sorry, just venting......... I feel like I have been engulfed by this feeling, want, desire, or whatever you wanna call it! Maybe I should stop it before we really start... So I don't get so utterly consumed??? WOuld that even work? Oh, good grief!!! I'm off here now... I'm EXHUASTED and I slept like a baby (ha, didn't intend to use that word) last night! :-) What's going on with me??? It's gotta be the vitamins/herbs I'm taking........ Good nap time everyone!

 

jenn_ns - January 17

Hey Megs!! You don't have to push TTC aside, do you? Is it possible to pay DH a umm...'booty call' if you're O-ing and he's away?? I mean...you can make plans around him not being home, right?? How far away is he?? Can he come home for a night while he's in training???

 

Megs - January 17

LOL That was cute, "a umm... 'booty call'". Well, technically I guess I could...... It's just such an invasive training period that I would hate to be a distraction but he's about 1 1/2-2 hours away. Depending on traffic! He is only allowed to come home on the weekend, as in Friday after training and must be back Sunday evening for training on Monday. I'm just hoping I will O on the weekend!!! LOL And with my cycles and only being on CD14 I've probably got another 20 days to go before O happens if I have another one like last go around! Depending on work and if he gets an early day off, I may go and stay with him a couple nights... :-) MOST certainly get my booty call in that way!! LOL I'm SO anxious about TTC now I just keep telling myself that realistically this cycle is not going to be the BFP cycle... IF i do end up pg after this go around I will be amazed and KNOW that God wanted us pg now! :-) Oh, I'm already upset about Valentine's Day and it being on a Wednesday... I'm thinking about invading him that day with lots of stuff and dressing up the suite he has. (oh, and he shares a suite with someone too!!! LOL I don't know how that will all work out! hahaha!) ARGH! Just venting I guess. Thanks for the uplifting questions though!!!

 

jenn_ns - January 18

It's just alternate planning, is all!! GL... I've got my fingers crossed for ya! :)

 

Megs - January 18

Thanks!!! DH COMES HOME TOMORROW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :-) He called and told me that tomorrow is going to be an "early" day. As in, they will be done by 5:30pm so he'll be home by 8pm ish and all that good stuff depending on traffic! I'm gonna make him a special dinner and just show him how much I have missed him....... LOL So that eggie better come this weekend!! haha! If only I could be like the llama and decide when.. (That story still cracks me up!)

 

jenn_ns - January 18

oh...and I'm sure the room-mate can go shopping, or to a movie or something..... He'll probably want to anyway, so you and DH can be alone.

 

jenn_ns - January 18

oh....that's GREAT, Megs!!! Make it romantic!! (and un-plug the phone!). I have no idea what the llama story is, tho'!!

 

Megs - January 18

Llama's can make themselves O anytime they want! (At least that's the story on here.. :-))

 

Megs - January 18

:-) Roommate will indeed be kicked out! haha! I'm just excited about seeing DH... Last night was really rough without him! (I was scared! LOL Kept hearing every little sound and the dogs were barking like crazy at something... I did have the alarm set though so that helped. But just still nothing like having DH there to "protect" me!)

 

jenn_ns - January 18

I totally understand.... Staying alone sucks!! ...Now I kinda wish I was a llama........ LOL

 

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