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wise old owl - April 10

I have been reading posts on this web site for a short while now. But, I am very concerned for the ladies whom let trying to get pregnant consume their life.Every post says, Is this a sign, Or the same thing is happening to me.Every ache,sore br___t sneeze has some one posting? Every body is different. And symptoms usually don't start for weeks and some get no symptoms at all. Also, If every woman got pregnant midway through her cycle there would be no need for birth control.We could just skip those days." A watched pot never boils".Ladies give your selves a break.I mean this in the most respectful way possible.

 

Jessica - April 10

umm not to be rude, but that is what this form is for. we ask questions and we give advice to each other and try to stay positive about things.

 

annon. - April 10

I agree with wise old owl. I used to be obsessed with getting pregnant and when i finally just relaxed it happened. And when it did happen i just knew b/c i felt things i never felt before.

 

Hey - April 10

Hey leave us alone. I mean, you are on this post obviously reading, so us ladies are just having some fun also and talking to eachother. Why do YOU feel the need to say this. Who are you. Let us have fun.

 

Hey - April 10

Hey leave us alone. I mean, you are on this post obviously reading all of it then arent you, so us ladies are just having some fun also and talking to eachother. Why do YOU feel the need to say this? Who are you? Let us have fun.

 

vanessa - April 10

I can see where wise old owl is coming from but at the same time, most of us just want to chat and compare "notes". Is it really hurting anyone?? I guess if it bothers you to read the forum than... don't read the forum. And, of course, I mean that in the most respectful way possible. :)

 

Melissa - April 10

Great answer, Vanessa. Sometimes I have to just vent and get out all of my obsessions somewhere. I don't want to do it at work or with friends b/c they will ask me about it everytime I see them. With a forum like this, I can discuss my frustrations, hopes, and questions in my own time and in my own way, without the pressure from the outside world. Sometimes I do just want to put it all out of my mind, but when I log onto this site, it is when I want to think about things. It's a choice. If the "wise" old owl doesn't choose to obsess from time to time, then he/she should find another site to fill his/her time. I am not sure if that old owl is male or female, because the commment seems like such a male comment.

 

Livvie - April 10

Seems Wise Owl also had a smart remark on my post "growling tummy"...I think this person must do a lot of reading to know about our posts, so that person is actually the weird one.

 

Sue - April 10

I absolutely agree with Wise Old Owl. I am one of the obsessing women on this site who have been trying to conceive for many years and it's gotten to a point where I'm almost going nuts now. I've bought every book, done everything possible, underwent surgery and treatments, and I JUST DON'T GET PREGNANT. Trying to conceive is consuming my life. Thank you for the wake up call Wise Old Owl, and this is a warning to all of you: Watch out that you don't end up in the black hole where I am. I can't function normal anymore, my life is a mess. All because I just can't get a grip of myself and let go of my obsession. I'm not saying you ladies should not post here. All I'm saying is just be careful that you don't become too involved and end up obsessed if you don't get what you want within the time frame that you wanted it. Lots of luck to all of you.

 

to everyone - April 10

we are woman. we were made to have babies. we have strong feelings to be pregnant. having babies is apart of life. if it wasn't then wise old owl would not be around to take the time to complain to us. we can't help it. it's a loving thing to bring a person into the world. it's a wonderful time in your life. so woman hold your heads up high. and keep doing your thing. much love to all !!

 

jena - April 10

I agree with "to everyone" and many others saying the same thing - ttc and pregnancy is a scary/weird time and we need support - a lot of time support that is anonymous. you don't like it, don't read it. good luck to the rest of you!

 

bump - April 10

bump

 

Liz - April 10

No disrespect, but it's a "support" forum and a forum for information. You are right everyone is different and I have gotten loads of info. off here (and I have already had a child) and have met some great ladies. While "the pot is boiling" it's nice to be in good company!!!!!!

 

Carlee - April 10

I agree w/ Liz and To Everyone. We are on here for a common bond and some varied info. It's nice to be a group from 20-45!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

AmyF - April 10

Hey--- does anyone have sore b___sts that sneeze??? :)

 

Liz - April 10

Hey Amy that was a crack up!!! I have alot of ga__sy cm!!!!! : )

 

stacey - April 10

AmyF- hilarious!! :)

 

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