WOT UP GALS Keeks Chriss Estee Miss Jules

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Jules - June 28

Morning Gals! I'm sorry I disappeared yesterday - had some shopping to do! Keeks, I have read your story and also cannot believe what they did to you! How could they try to hide that? You fight them - and I hope and pray that you get everything you deserve from them. I think it's a great idea that you're home-schooling Avery. So that means he walks and talks just fine? But he has a difficult day every now and again - and he sounds like a real fighter!!! Just like his Mama!!! Wow - well, I think you're a doing a great job with him. Well done, keeks. You keep doing what you're doing - cos it must be the right thing. You have such a happy family. And keep us informed as to his progress! Well, hope we hear from Chriss today that she gets her BFP!!! That would be fantastic! And you too, Keeks - are you gonna take an EPT? Imagine if you BOTH get BFP! That'll be fantastic! 2 little March Hares!!! Estee, how are you feeling? I do hope that work is not getting you down too much. Try to take a break and put your feet up - easier said than done, I know - but do what you can to relax and take breaks often. Miss, good to hear from you again. Glad the Summer is treating you well - cos you sound relaxed! But I do hope that you and Dh get some good together-time anyways - just for fun!!! Well, I WILL check back layder - counting down to the appt on Thursday. Lotsa love xxxxx

 

Jules - June 28

Keeks - that is BRILLIANT!!! So you've taught him to sign!! I think that's excellent. You are a very dedicated and loving Mom and I think you guys deserve to be compensated for the mistakes that others have made. Well done for having the strength to do as well as you have with your beautiful kids! You are a wonder-worker. As much as you love your babies, it does take strength and commitment to be such a loving and patient Mom. Not everyone could do as you have done! I say well done!!! Jue, I was really sad to read your story. And I think you've done beautifully as well.It can't have been easy for you - even from day 1 of your pregnancy. And you have been so patient and caring with your son. You also deserve so much and I'm sure you'll be rewarded as he grows up into a strong and caring young guy. Well, I do hope we get some more wonderful BFPs on this thread! All the ladies on here deserve them and I know they'll come - all at the right time. We're still waiting to see who will have the March Hare / Spring Chicken!!! Holla Back, Gals xxxxx

 

kEEKEE - June 28

Thanks Jules!!!! You are such a sweet person. You are going to be a great mom. You have all the making for greatness as a parent. Very understanding!!! Your little angel is blessed............Jue, wow you are a strong women. You took a horrible event and made it a blessing. You are so blessed!!! It sounds like Chris is the joy of your life. Congrats on being a terrific mom........Estee and Chriss, We miss you!!!.........Miss, What ya doing??.......I have bad gas.......heehee....Now, I'm not going to look at it like a sign....It could be something I ate. I also have a little stomach discomfort. Either AF or pregnancy. Hey, I have a 50/50 chance.......heeeheee........We will see.........Holla!!!!

 

kEEKEE - June 28

Ok guys!!! I am changing my name. I will now be known as KEEKS FORMALLY KNOWN AS KEEKEE. Get it??.......heehee....There is too many keekees around here. So I will use Keeks. i like the name....Smooches!!!!!

 

keeks - June 28

Heeeheee...I know you and Chris almost died of embarra__sment.....heehee...i know the feeling...Avery's at the point of not wanting mom to change him. I think he get embarra__sed. So, I turn my head when I change his Goodnites. He know let me change him freely......heehee...He can say Mom and Dad...Mosty say Dad more. He's a trader.He loves DH. Dh treat him like a son. You could never tell they are not father and son.His sperm donor only call my mom and ask how Avery is doing. We use to drop him off to Donor, but he stop showing up. He gave me the excuse of his wife think Avery is too loud. So, I told him to kiss my a__s!!! He and his wife can go to Hell. So that was the end of that. Now Avery has a great father.....Both of my boys say Mom. Jordan say Mama over and over again. He wave his little hand for me to come here.He is just one. Hes been talking forever.......heeehee....Oh, and both of them say No. Avery shake his head no and laugh. He is something else.........Jue, i just want to let you know i had my share of hardships. I know how hard it is to get over what happen in the past. It took me years of therapy. I went through my earlier years hating black men( who hurt me as a child). I had finally learned to forgive but I will never forget. The people who did harm to me will pay by God's hand..........Dh is home today. He got the kids, which is nice. Soon I know I will have to save him from the rugrats. He think he can handle it.....heeheee....He will see......heeheee........Smooches

 

Jules - June 28

Heya Gals - wow, I truly think it's awesome that we've all met up and that we can share and chat the way we do. I know we've all come thru tough times (and some have had worse than others) but that just qualifies us so well to help others. And I think that's why we're all still here helping and relying on each other. You gals are all great and I feel blessed to know each one of you. So, I hope we're all doing well tonight. Jue, as nasty as that nausea / queasiness is, it really is a good sign for you!!! Please remind me, when is you af due date? And when are you gonna test? I wish we could hear from Chriss too. And Keeks (there will ever ONLY be one of you in my books!!!) what about you? When will you test? I know af is due on the 3rd - but if you're starting up with the ga__sy thang like Estee and me then I am getting EXCITED!!! YAY!!! And guess what?! My best childhood friend just called me to tell me she is pregnant! She is 7 weeks and due on 8 Feb 2006! She was at my birthday party at the beginning of June and was starting to suspect that maybe she was preggers!!! I am so happy - that we're preggers together - I would never have imagined it! But shame, she's having bad nausea. I do hope she feels better. And she is nervous too!!! She always wanted to wait to have kids - we're both 30 now. I told her that her hormones and natural instinct will kick in and she will be fine!!! She will make a great Mom too. Okie - looking forward to more news from ya gals. Hope Estee and Miss are doing okay. Estee, here's hoping you're feeling strong and not working too hard!!! Lotsa love to all of ya xxxxx

 

keeks - June 28

Jules you are so right. I never thought I would meet such good people online. You girls are great. I am so happy that I told the time to get to know y'all. Its amazing how much we have in common..........I am not testing until after a missed AF. I don't want to catch a chemical pregnancy. So, I will test on the 5th. If I can wait that long......heehee........I'm hoping Chriss got her BFP!!!!......Jue is due for AF on the 7. So, we are due at the same thing...........Hopefully someone will get a BFP!!!! We will see!!!!.......Jules, Have you gave in??......Shopping for the baby....Did you buy anything???............Smooches

 

keeks - June 28

Estee!!!! Don't work toooooo Hard!!!!!

 

jue - June 29

yes my af is due 7 july and I am hopping she looses my address for about 9+ months he he he. me and my ex(husband) are best friends since we got devorced, he drove me to my second wedding and looked after my home and the kids when I went on my honeymoon, me and his now 2nd exwife are best friends as well. If I need help and my hubby is not around or it is to do with the boys then my ex is there to help. it's thanks to him that I got over the rape so quickly, he put up with me crying and going to peices and then helped put me back together. my new hubby said when we were first talking about him going for a reversal about how many kids he wanted, he said only 2, that was before i had 2 m/c, now he said maybe 3 or 4 HAH in his dreams. I would like 2 and if we get a third then okay. I think his parents will have a heart attack if they found out we are ttc, his mother (yes the mother in law from hell he he he ) said when we made a comment out kids that we should be looking forward to our retirement, I AM ONLY 34 AND HE IS ONLY42, so we dicided to wait untill I am either 7 months gone or we find out that I am carrying a girl, we have only got boys in both familys, I have 2 boys hubby has 2 boys then my brother has 2 boys and hubby's sister has 2 boys and his brother has just had a son, man we have to have at least 1 girl he he he, and boy are we having fun trying to get her :). well my temps are still up and I have noticed my cm is white and almost lumpy (sorry tmi) any ideas? baby dust and super glue.

 

Jules - June 29

Heya Gals - good to hear from ya'll again. It's amazing to know what some of us have endured. And we're all still here!!! And sane!! (Well, just about, right, Keeks?!) :) Well, I haven't given in just yet (although I've come close - Dh wont let me buy a darn thang!!!) But today I did buy some stuff for my friend who found out yesterday that they're having a little boy. And, guess what - they will call him JORDAN!!! Ain't that a beautiful thing! Tomorrow is our 12 week appt and thendh better watch out after that cos I am going SHOPPING! I hope to go this weekend with my OTHER preggy buddy (there are now 3 - but my best friend lives about 8 hours away!!) and we are gonna try get some shopping in. I do SO hope that by Friday next week, at the very latest, we've had a few BFPs on here!!! Jue, I think those CM signs sound very promising - along with your better-than-normal elevated temp. Keeks - what about you? Any "signs" to speak of - though I know we always say we try not to read into things!!! It's near impossible - the signs are there - so read 'em! That's what I say! I wonder how Chriss is doing? And Miss too? Summer must be great in Canada. And Estee - we're missing ya!!! Stop working so d__n hard and come and tell us how you are!!!!! Okay - must work now. Will chat layder xxxxx

 

Estee P - June 29

Jue and Keeks, I've read your full story and I am so sad for you both! But so proud of you! You've had such terrible experiences, but you've walked out of it with such dignity! I have to say: You are even stronger and better moms that I initially thought! You're so amazing and give such great testimonies of being truely courageous women! I'm so glad you got through the worst and are still here to be able to tell your stories! Well done, ladies! And those signs .... Ohhhhhhhhhh!!! Very very good signs! As I'm sitting here at work, I'm suffering again with gas. And today I'm tired and even more moody and got a stuffy nose! I have reached a point of no return here at work. I've just submitted a memo with my superiors that I cannot cope with my work load any longer. I told them they have to reduce my responsibilities or split up my tasks and rea__sign some of them to other colleagues. I've been doing two people's work for years now, and I simply won't be able to keep it up with the rate at which my department is growing, and also with being pregnant. So I obviously haven't told them about the pregnancy yet, but I'm throwing some of my responsibilities back at them. If they don't give them to someone else to do, it's going to not be done any longer. I'm at a point now where I'm prepared to give up this job, rather than to keep drowning (with everyone thinking I'm only waving at them, when in fact I've been drowning for a long time now). I really tried and I kept working faster, harder en longer, but where I am now, there just isn't any more space to keep bending backwards for them. The next straw will break my back. So put that in your pipe and smoke it, colleagues!! This momma is no longer the "drop off the work and go" point in the company. Things are about to change! Fortunately I have a load of good will on my side, so I think it will work out. Jules, how's it going with your work? You coping?

 

kEEKEE/keeks - June 29

Hello ladies!!!! One of those busy days again. I have tons to do. The sign language teacher is coming over. We planning to go the park. Which is nice. Even thou we have a big yard already....heeeheee.......Estee, that sound like a good plan. Its not fair that your job treat you like that. You shouldn't be doing enough work for two people. I hope your boss is smart enough to ease up the work load. Before he lose a very smart excellent worker. Hopefully the gas will end soon. That running nose can be annoying. Its like having a cold 24/7. I hope you feel better soon..Thanks for the nice words. Y'all also very special women. You will make great mothers.......Jue, You have a mother in law from Hell!!! Me too!!! I have tons of stories. I'll holla at you later.....heehhee..................Jules, Go shopping....heeheee........Have fun and enjoy yourself.......I will holla at y'all later!!!!.........Sorry, have to go!!!...............Smooches

 

Jules - June 29

Heya Gals - Estee, give em horns, gal!!! It's not right that they expect that much of you. And it's true that you need to step back and chill out some now - you can't go at it 24/7 like you used to be able to. Your energy levels are not the same. Please let us know how it goes - and WHEN exactly they decide to change your workload policy!!! Glad you seem to be feeling okay though - besides the ga__siness!! Rather deal with that than bad nausea. Anyhoo, I do hope that THAT part gets better too. Well, we're still looking forward to our 12 week scan tomorrow morning. Can't wait! Will chat to ya layder xxxxx

 

Estee P - June 29

I'm up again at 4am. This has got to stop. My nose is so congested, no matter how many times I b__w it, I just can't seem to breathe without keeping my mouth open. I've always hated it when people's mouth's hang open all the time. Now I'm one of them. And I have to keep swallowing twice a minute to get my throat cleared. Where did all this snotty goo come from? Very windy again (that seems to be a 24 hour problem now) and extremely constipated. Not comfy at all. But no, won't complain too much. Wanted to be preggo so bad, so gotta bear with the down side as well, along with the blessing! Keeks, how was the park? What new signs have you all learned? You're amazing, ya know that!!?? And Jules, Jules, Jules, today is YOUR day! By the end of today your chances of miscarriage have reduced to 5%. You're very sure to be a momma in 6 months! And about a month (or less) from knowing what it's gonna be! I'm so excited for you! I'm only one month behind you, roughly. Got my first appointment on Tuesday. That's when reality will kick in for me. I'm starting to feel more and more pregnant now, with constant reminders throughout the day, such as the breathing prob, the GAS! and lower back pain as well as sudden unexpected outrages such as barking at my most favorite friend at work! And starting to go to the loo more often now. I am so excited!!!! I have waited so long for this!!!! I so desperately want to share this with my mom but I just wanna wait one more month. Just gotta get through the moving of our house for the next month. We're officially starting the move on Monday. It will take us one week to clean the new house and one week to move into it. And then probably another week to unpack again. I'll take 5 days leave through out the 3 weeks to get my things done. I'm looking forward to getting out of the office, it's not fun there anymore. This is probably nasty, but I want everyone to see how much I'm really doing, by not having me around for a couple of days, and having to struggle to get things done. Maybe they'll start to get some small idea of why I keep complaining that I can't cope with the load when suddenly they have to get by without me. But I've also learnt before that nobody in this world is not replaceable. So I guess they'll just get by without noticing, probably. anyway, let me get another hour or two of sleep, if possible. Enjoy your app today Jules! I'm thinking of you! xxx

 

jue - June 30

Hi girls. hey jules how did the appointment go? no problems I hope. Estee i hope they do realise what they have in you and give some of your load to someone else. keeks hope you all had fun at the park and learn't lots more signs. me I have been having fun on my pc, 20 mins of work and 3 hours of playing simon the sorcerer 3d, it's great being my own boss, no-one to moan and nag me to get on with work he he he. Well my hubby is having a bad time at the moment, his 2 boys from his first marriage haven't answered their mobiles once in the last month and hubby has no idea if they are going to be there for his monthly contact visit. he fought for 8.5 years to get his exwife to allow him to see his sons (she is a real hostile mother of the worse kind), she spent most of the 8 years poisoning them towards their father. oh well I suppose not every couple can get along after they get devorcered. well my temps took a dip and hopping it is implantation and that it goes back up tomorrow fingers crossed. hope you are all ok and not over doing it to much (I know chance would be a fine thing he he he) stay in touch everyone :) baby dust and super glue.

 

Jules - June 30

Hello Gals!!! Whew!! What a day!!! This morning's appointment was absolutely AMAZING!!! We couldn't believe how much we saw!!! Baby is completely formed (except the skeleton) and looks like a real little person!!! The bones are starting to form and he/she is SO active - wouldn't stay still for a second! Heartbeat at 162 beats per minute (which is great - very healthy) and we saw the little fingers and toes and feet - everything just looked perfect! Although baby is only 5.24 centimeters long! From Crown to Rump - heh heh heh. But that is a good size and baby is growing well. At one stage was lying with it's one arm behind its head, as if on its father's yacht!!! TOO cute! Anyhoo - we have it all on video and are gonna watch it again tonight - just for fun. Was truly amazing!!! Can't wait for the next one at 16 weeks ;) Hope you gals are all doing well. Jue, am hoping along withyou that the dip is implantation. Keep us informed over the next few days, please!!! Keeks - how's it going with you? Looking foward to testing soon too? Can't wait for some news from Chriss either. Estee, you will go bananas when you have your first scan. It does become very real - and moreso at the second scan - when you can see a real little human form there! heh heh heh - Miss - still chillin by the pool sippin on Margaritas? I envy you!!! Lotsa love to all ya gals - chat layder xxxxx

 

keeks - June 30

Hey Ladies!!!!!!!! Wow what a day!!! I am slow at doing everything today. Kind of sleepy lately. I been have side cramps. Little sharp twinges that is running me crazy. It could be AF on its way. I don't know. Pregnancy or AF!!! I will know soon......Tomorrow is the 1st. So chriss will know for sure. I hope she get her BFP!!!!.......Jules, I am so happy for you. You got to see the baby. So do the baby look like a boy or girl??? I know, you can't tell yet. You only have 8 more weeks to go to find out the s_x. Do you want to know??..............Jue, its countdown for us!!! How are you feeling?? Annoy your MIL!!! Its none of her business. I hope you get a BFP soon..........Estee, sounds like you are stressing. Try to relax. I know its hard. Well, while you on vacation, hopefully you can be able to get more sleep and be able to take care of yourself like you want to. What happen at work?? Did the boss ease your work load?? I hope so............Miss and Chriss, we miss ya!!!........I'm about to make lunch.........Holla!!!

 

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