13 And Pregnant What About My Parents

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dnt need to no - January 31

PEAPLE GET ME SO ANGRY THESE DAYS SO WHAT IF THEY WANT TO HAVE KIDS AT A YOUNG AGE ITS THEIR CHOISE AND SOME OF YOU CUMING ON HERE SAYIN YOUR OPINIAN WHICH YOU CAN KEEP TOO YOUR SELF HOW DO YOU FINK THEY FEEL AND SOME PEAPLE JUST COME ON HERE TO HEAR WHAT PEAPLE GOT TO SAY THINK ABOUT HOW YOU WOULD FEEL IF YOU WAS THEM !!!!!

 

vickie - February 3

how do u have a aborin

 

melistephhope - February 6

UZ MESSIN UZ R 13 14 N 15 N UZ R PREGNANT R UZ SLAGS?????? GET A GRIP WATE TILL YE OLD ENOUGH AN JANE YE 9 Y DI YE DO IT WEN YE WER 9 LIKE??? MY ADVICE IS GETTA GRIP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

 

Nesha - February 7

Look im 17 and im pregnant and i know you like your older than me. You should have knew better. Well my life isnt going to be as complicated as yours your most likely just getting out of elementary and dont have that much of an education. Now im not being mean but if you dont know nothing but the alphebet waht can you teach your child and trust me as far as not telling your parnets or the father of that baby you better. Now i cant tell you what to do but in the end you will wish you did trust me. Im in the last 2 weeks of my pregnancy and i didnt tell my boyfriend that i was pregnant until my 6th month and he started dening my baby and that was hard enough and as far as my parents they just found out 1 month ago in my 7th month and they were really mad im telling you so you can no what to do get help tell every one if you have to GOODLUCK

 

Lou - February 8

hunni im 18 n pregnant an iv alot of support but im in a steady relationship a gd job and have my own home with partner i no a gil who had a baby at 14 and she has a hard life she left school wen she was 16 an i now working full time has no life n is trying to care for her lil tot im scared at the thought of being a first time mum i no women who r older than me who are scared at being a first time mum you have got to think of the welfare of this little baby and you....and yes it mite not be wat u wanna do but its in the best interests of u ur education and if this little baby gets a better life somewhere else given things that you cant then so be it. love isnt always the answer hunni.....another thing i dont mean to sound harsh but why were u having s_x at 13 you should b out enjoying your childhood just think very carefully about your choices...abortion no i agree adoption is a gd proposition.....first things first u need to tell ur parents and then the dad they all have a right to no. good luck xxx

 

ness - February 10

Victoria, You can't possibly know that you are two weeks pregnant. Most people find out at at least 4, this shows how naive and unaware of pregnancy you are!! I am shocked by these little girls wanting babies. I'm 28 and researching what I need to do to be healthiest in order to conceive a planned baby, having finished my studies, worked for 7 years and earning a high salary so that I can provide the best for my child. I've done my fair share of partying and travelled alot and now my fiancee and I are ready to add to our family :) Please girls consider what you can achieve before having a child, and how that will help you be a better Mum and role model for your kids.

 

sarah - February 10

Am 13 and my boyfriend is 19, my boyfriend keeps saying he wants to have a baby with me but i feel i am to young the more time i spend with him the more he says it and the more i feel i have to have a baby. He says his mates will wanna help us have one but i dont understand in what way they mean as they all ask me if i would sleep with them. He hits me when he is drunk saying and makes me sleep with him. Some one please tell me if anything similar has happened to them i dont now what to do please HELP!!!!

 

Jasmine - February 17

I cant believe all of you girls on here that want to have babies at the age 13. Im 13 going on 14 this month. Im 3 months pregnant my parents dont know. My boyfriends does. I am going to tell the truth Its scary. When I was 11 and 12 I wanted to get pregnant so I could have baby cuz I love kids. Babies at da Im still a kid myself. Now that I am pregnant and starting to show, Im lyke why did I want a baby in the first place. This is nothing to be proud of. My friends are looking at me differnt I get called names I never wanted to be called. I thought It would be cool, but its not. All your girls need to think about it no more sleep overs, no more staying at your friends house, no more parties or dances. You are gone be at your house watching after the baby you wanted so bad. I know Im not the only one out here thinking the same thing with knowing Im pregnant I wish myself I would of thought twice. You need to also. If anybody wants to talk about it email me [email protected]

 

heather - February 19

honey I think that you should go to a pregnancy counsler in your area. you can call birthright and they will give you all the info you need. you have options. but no matter what be honest with your family and the father of the child. your parents love you and they will support you and if they don't birthright will give you support. but please at this age seek advise on all your options before making a decision.

 

Monica - February 19

im about a week preg. and im not tellin my parents either... but i think you should tell your parents so u can get the right help from doctors...even if their going to be mad at you cause you want best for the baby.... so just tell your parents and even if they get mad they will eventually look at the bright side of being grandparents and they will help you.

 

jg - February 20

Sarah. If your post is for real, then it sounds as if you are in a very abusive relationship and need to tell your parents or the police. If your bf hits you, he will likely hit your baby so you must avoid falling pregant to him at all costs!!! You should not have anything to do with him or his mates, so get out now before he really hurts you. As I said before, if this situation is for real, tell your parents or the police. Or maybe a school counsellor or telephone help line. You need help little miss.

 

maren - February 20

monica- you wouldnt know if you were a week pregnant. Did you take a test a week ago and only have know for a week thats possible. Now you gave some of these girls good advice and that they should tell there parents and see a doctor as soon as possible. Shouldnt you take your own advice and tell your parents so you can see a doctor as well?

 

jana - February 20

tell your parents and your boyfriends parents and keep courage and DONT get an aborsion

 

christin - February 20

hey gurl, just a little word of encouragement im 13 and i have been thinkin alot about teens bein preg. i know how u feel cuz i know how i would feel if i was in your shoes but keep your head up high and dont give up. p.s. whatever you do please dont get an aborsion just face your parents after its all over with you will fell SSOOOO much better

 

christin - February 20

oh yeah one more thing im doin a report on teen preg. and my friend is doin one on aborsion from what i have read your not the only one in your circ_mstance

 

to whom it may cocern - February 20

if any of you that are pregnant want to put your child up for adoption i know a few couples who are not able to have a child and have already completed home studies and are looking for a child to adopt please contact me at [email protected]

 

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