8wks Bleeding Alone And Hes Gone Back To His Ex

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tina - August 28

hi.. can somebody please bring my spirits up before i crumble.. i am nearly 9wks pregnant,with a 10yr old already (whos father is watless) When i told my man of 3yrs about the preg he said he would be there for us, and wanted me to keep it, it turns out its only wen it suits him. And he said he is unsure if he wants to be with me or his ex now. (who i can't stand) I have told him to go and not come back as i don't want another part time dad and can not EVER handle his ex in my life, and if he goes back to her its a constant reminder. Have i done the right thing? he would make a really good dad, but only wen it suits him. Am i being selfish by cutting him out now so he doesn't mess up mine or my unborn childs head now rather than later? I am also bleeding, have had scan al ok, but clots since, have another scan next wk. I feel so alone and scared and just don't know wat to do.. please somebody help me out..

 

Li - August 28

Im sorry, I know how it is to be going through this. You did the right thing. You have to relief yourself from this stress and concentrate on your well being. I was 6weeks-8weeks pregnant, and my boyfriend left me for another. He was a real jerk and I found out I was pregnant after he left. The one night that he came looking for me acting all happy was the same night I had s_x with him and started to bleed. I ended up lossing the baby the next day, and he wasn't there. It hurt me a lot more than anything I should of just stay away. Please take good care of yourself, pay no mind to him. You have a future ahead of you with your baby, don't waste your energy on him. Try to focus on school, get a hobby--go to a parenteen cla__s. Just relax your mind I wish you the best!

 

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