Are There ANY Single Amp Mature Realists Here

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Monique - September 10

Is there anyone here that has gotten over being suddenly single and is ready to MOVE ON now and support and encourage each other?? I am technically NOT single but my bf is so immature and flaky sometimes, I'm coming to terms that I have to have a plan B that gives me faith and courage to pull this off on my own. Anyone like me out there??

 

Hi Monique - September 10

I sure hope so. Good Luck!

 

Been there!! - September 10

I know how you feel, my ex had good traits but the bad traits outweighed them, but i was in love with him and was waiting for him to dump me cause i didnt have the heart to. If you have negative or want to leave him, trust your gut instincts and do it!! He & I would end up cheating behind eachothers back because we didnt complete eachother as a couple. So its very unhealthy & relationships lead to nowhere if you don't like the guy or cant stand him. Leave him & dont waste your time with him when theres all these other guys you could be with or "waste your time with". I always think about how i wasted almost 4 yrs of my life being with him when all at the end he finally broke up with me. After the breakup what happens? I find out I'm pregnant so I suggest before your situation comes out for the worse, LEAVE HIM!!!!! Ask family, friends for advice, encourage and support, they will always be there for you to remind you & help you not have any reason to be with him!!! If not you'll suffer at the end & you'll wish you did leave him & end up kicking yourself in the a__s b/c each day you fall more in love with a guy...so get out before your heart falls in love with his no good a__s.

 

dhamel - November 29

yes, I was 3months and I left the father of my child, I called the wedding off 3weeks before. Its hard no doubt but the way I look at it, its better than my child coming into a bad household. Im not a child im 37 and due in 15 weeks its very hard but I have great support from friends and family and I lean on them when I need to. My faith is very strong also, he is there for us just ask him and he will give you all the support you need. Good luck

 

dhamel121 - November 29

yes, I was 3months and I left the father of my child, I called the wedding off 3weeks before. Its hard no doubt but the way I look at it, its better than my child coming into a bad household. Im not a child im 37 and due in 15 weeks its very hard but I have great support from friends and family and I lean on them when I need to. My faith is very strong also, he is there for us just ask him and he will give you all the support you need. Good luck

 

Monique - November 29

yes, I was 3months and I left the father of my child, I called the wedding off 3weeks before. Its hard no doubt but the way I look at it, its better than my child coming into a bad household. Im not a child im 37 and due in 15 weeks its very hard but I have great support from friends and family and I lean on them when I need to. My faith is very strong also, he is there for us just ask him and he will give you all the support you need. Good luck

 

lauren - November 30

Go with your gut instincs an leave him. i left my boy friend when i got pregnant, and have not regreted it once, you don't need an unsupportive man in you life!! And yu can definatley pull this off in your own, you just need supportive family and friends! Im now 39 weeks and due any day, and i am more than happy with my descision. ther is also alot of support from local community places, just look around, and good luck!!!

 

Monique - December 2

Why is it every post in this forum seems to be a scandalous affair or a child with a child?? I mean, I'm 34 I did not plan on being single--but I'm a grown-up and we will be fine!! That's what I meant by mature. Some of us are capable of being single parents!! Good luck to you guys that have responded!!

 

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