Babys Dad Kicking Me Out Not Helping Thinks Hes A Saint 3

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misskk - January 4

We met and have been on and off since 06. I'm due june of 2011. When he got me pregnant, he moved me from texas to indiana. I'm four months along, he is making me move back, he got a bus ticket. So far, he hasn't bought our baby anything, verbally attacks me, tells me I'm an object for , he s_x, and will be a horrible mother. His family supports him in his actions. He also says he doesn't think he is the father, but when I ask him who else could possibly have even touched me, he shrugs and says "i dunno". Now, to top everything off, he is even taking my cell phone that he got me as a christmas gift. He is willing to put me on a bus, pregnant, alone, and terrified. The kicker here is, for six months before this, my phone was both of ours. It then broke, so he got us new phones on a family share plan. Does he have the right to take mine away? He thinks he's this great, responsible guy... I think he's not the guy I've known since high school anymore. The part that really hurts is that I love him very, very much. :'( when I got pregnant, I never, ever thought he would do anything like this to me. Never in a million years. In fact, me, my friends, and my family were happy and thought that he and I were going to be a happy family. He claimed to be excited. Now I think hes trying to leave me high and dry. How responsible is it to buy the mother of your child a phone, then put her on a bus after taking that phone away? I just had an ovarian cist rupture! What if something happens? What if some sick person tries to harm me? What do you think?

 

misskk - January 4

I meant to say he calls me an object for s_x. He claims he never loved me, then an hour later, he's saying he didn't mean it, and he's sorry. He controls everything I do. He blocked some of my friends from contacting my phone, and makes me use speaker to talk to my family! He moniters everything I do! He used to be amazing... :/ I'm just glad my momma raised me without a man, shes a strong woman who is taking me in, and is going to help me. i think he wants my phone because hes scared I'm going to find another guy, but the truth is, if its not him, its nobody. I want to focus on my baby and my future, and nothing else. Please comment, people. Opinions needed!

 

Grandpa Viv - January 6

kk, the way it comes across, you both need counseling, but not with the idea of making you a couple. He is one of those control freak guys who gets you pregnant so he is in charge, then gets his kicks from making you miserable. Please get over him and take the bus. As to the phone, why obssess about it? I'm glad your mom has her feet on the ground - you will be needing her. GL!

 

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