How Do I Know If He Wants To Be Apart Of Our Childs Life

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halfpint_83 - May 25

So I told the father that I was pregnant and didn't really say much just told me he figured I was. He really hasn't said much about the baby I found out on the 16th of May. Since then we don't really talk much we do but never about the baby when I said something about the baby he said we can't afford no baby. Well then I went to the doctors and had it confirmed I had told him I was going to he drs and He ended up asking me why I had to go to the drs and when I told him to confirm it he said oh but as far as I know he hasn't told any one in his family and I just want to know what he is going threw to see if I can help him come to grips with it or if he is just scared. If any one has any suggestions please help me out here. Thank you

 

COLLEEN084 - May 27

Well silly, you are going to have to ask him!! Eventually...Just give it time for now, maybe wait a week or so after the confirmation from the doctor and let him think about things. I know a week will feel like forever but take it from my experience...if he freaks out (which he probably is just bottling up right now) he WILL probably say some mean things you dont need to hear right now. Thats why I suggest you wait to ask him where he stands on things.

 

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