In Love And Pregnant

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shundad - December 30

Thought I had the greatest man in the world. We actually planned for our Love child, however, he's suddenly seems uninterested in my pregnancy. Wow!!! What to do?

 

Grandpa Viv - January 1

Uninterested, like "get an abortion", or like "yeah, well, OK"? The thought processes going on in the male's mind are quite different from those in the female's mind when a pregnancy is announced. For the female the whole business is very immediate. For the male it is long term, involving responsibility, commitment, finances, narrowing of options. Perhaps you could get him involved in the immediate part with ma__sages, belly pics, LaMaze cla__ses, plans for presence at delivery. GL!

 

shundad - January 2

Hey Grandpa Viv!! Thanks for responding. you have said the same exact things my father and several other men in my family has said the same thing. However, I'm grateful that he is seeming more interested. i think it was more of a shock than anything, even though we planned for the baby, and he's teased about me being pregnant, now that I am it's all so real to him.

 

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