The Father Wants His Last Name Or Hyphenated I Do Not

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danika014 - February 21

My ex-boyfriend and I are having a baby. We were together for a few short months before I found out I was pregnant with his child. I broke up with shortly after we found out. My ex is completely obsessed and in love with himself and is so caught up in everyone elses lives and drama, when he should be focusing on taking care of himself. My ex is a man-child. He is 23 years old, still lives with mommy and daddy, and living off of there paychecks. So, I hope you can see from this description why I broke up with him and why do not want my child to be raised around someone so focused on how he is portrayed by others, and on his looks (I forgot to mention earlier he is an actor). I worried that my ex will put me down in front of my child, say things about me to turn my child against me. Basically, I really do not want my ex to be a part of this. I have plenty of support from my family, who are more than happy to help and support me and my child. Must I have the father always be a part of my kids life and give the baby his last name? Can I give the baby my last name, and have somewhat most of the custody?

 

pregnant_single - March 9

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RebeccaT - November 16

TO ALL WHO LET THEMSELVES BE FOOLED BY A FOOL,I DONT KNOW WHY ITS OK FOE A SAUDI GUY TO HAVE s_x B4 MARRIAGE BUT ITS DIFFERENT FOR A WOMAN,YET THEY ARE THE ONES WHO WANT A VIRGIN ON THEIR WEDDING NIGHT AFTER CORRUPTING ,,HOW MANY VIRGINS ALREADY,,RIGHT...IT ISNT FAIR AND THEN WHEN THEGIRL GETS PREGNANT ITS ALL THE GIRLS FAULT,,NO..ITS..JUST AS MUCH THE GUYS BECAUSE THEY ARE TO BE A MAN AND SHOULD BE STRONGER AND IF HE LOVED THE GIRL IN THE 1ST PLACE HE WOULDNT EVEN ASK HER TO GIVE OF HERSELF LIKE THAT,,,AND THEN TO NOT CLAIM HIS OWN CHILD,,WHEN HE DENIES THE CHILD,,AT THAT TIME,,ITS UP TO THE WOMAN TO DECIDE WHATS BEST FOR HER,,AND IF SHE CHOOSES TO NAME THE CHILD AFTER THE FATHER SHE HAS THAT RIGHT BECAUSE THE FATHER GAVE HIS RIGHTS UP WHEN HE DENIED THE CHILD-SPERM DONOR,WHAT EVER YOU WANT TO CALL HIM,,HE SURE ISNT A MAN,,THATS FOE SURE,,AND IF ANYONE OF YOU NEED A PLACE TO GET SETTLED HERE IN THE USA ,,IM A MOM & GRANDMA I CAN HELP AND UNLIKE THESE FREAKY s_x CRAZED GRANPA,S WHO JUST WANT TO USE YOU AS A s_x OBJECT,,I CAN REALLY HELP YOU,,,AND GIVE YOU THE GUIDANCE YOU NEED LIKE ANY OTHER MOTHER WOULD DO WITH A DAUGHTER....hottamalemom59atyahoodot.com.....IF YOU HAVE NO WHERE TO GO BUT HAVE THE MONEY TO GET HERE CONTACT ME...SOMEONE WHO WAS THERE B-4

 

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