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shesdymed - May 6

i have gotten pregnant i'd say about a month ago, i was willing to keep it and my man was more excited than i was, because he know held a big responsibility in his hands as a father. <b>instead</b> when i told my mother she pushed me more towards an abortion, and i did it for her. i feel so regretful for puttin my family before my own child. <b>now</b> regrets hit me hard because it was somethin i didnt want to do, i changed so much and started givin up my usual activities for this child, my regets hit me so hard and so happens now i may be pregnant again (5 to 6 weeks later) i do choose to keep this baby and take my full responsibilty as a mother, i've already set my mind to it, im soon to get an apartment with him and i will attend school while his grandmother takes care of my baby until i come home and handle my full responsibility. what do u guys think about all of this?

 

shesdymed - May 6

i just need advice. options, i know that its very much possible it may not work out this way. im not positively sure that i am pregnant. but i am gettin symptoms such as nautiousness, sleepiness, hungry (often), change in appet_te (hungry but i dont want just ANYTHINg to eat), and at times i get this sharp pain on my side below my ribs. my abdomen ffeels a little soar and tender . . . idk i just need ur opnions. if a am pregnant then i would b about 12 to 13 dyays pregnant. help guys. i need opinions :)

 

shesdymed - May 6

o and to add, my parents knew about my first pregnancy, not this one :\ and i wana wait at least 4 months to tell them that way i cant have another abortion, i know it sounds very immature of me, but i feel as though i need to get myself together and plan myself , the babys father, and the babys future before someone else decides it for me . what do u think?

 

MelissaP - May 6

Well... first off, don't let anyone tell yuo what you should do with your body and your baby. It is your choice. If you have made up your mind to keep this child, then keep it. There are pletny of programs that will a__sist you in raising your baby until you and your boyfriend get on your feet. There is Med-cal or Medi-caid(depending on where you live) for health insurance, food stamps,WIC(Women,Infants,Children)program that will supply you with the basic nutrition,housing, and even Welfare if yuo are in desperate need. While deciding to keep your child I do reccomend that you stay in school and get the best education that you can for your benefit and for your child's future! I hope the father feels the same.....schools can even get you into a daycare program that will watch your child for slim to none(even zero dollars) Go to your county health department and start doing your research girl. Good luck and no matter what keep up with your education!

 

shesdymed - May 6

thanx soo much . its hard , although im young i want the best for mychild and this pregnancy has changed me soo much. :) i appreciate it soo much

 

Bebita_Linda - May 6

I thinks its great what makes you happy go for it ur mature

 

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