17 I Think I May Be But Heres The Thing

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Summer - January 23

I turned 17 in november, there is prollybably a very slim chance im pregnant because of useing a condom and b/c and i had one period already but i know that that is very possible. there were like 4 times without condoms thought. But heres the thing... about 6 months ago i was worried i was but i knew i wasnt and he lvies in another state (im movineg there soon) but this time i wasnt worried about it at all, but i had a dream allll about pregnancy, and ive been reaing baby name thigns, watching viedos, reading internet stories and everything....and as much as i 75% dont think im pregnant, there is a part of me..about..65%...hopeing that i am....is this wrong?...i mean im gonna gradtae in may and move...and i know we're not ready really...i just keep thinking about myself being pregnant and the loo on my fiancee's face when he/she is born...(although right now the face would prolly be throwing up because we're not ready)...and i really wanna know if theres other people out there even when their not ready and young, who hope on some level they are...Thanks...

 

Andrea - January 24

The desire to have a child is not something to be guilty about, this is really normal and common if you have a pregnancy scare. Having a child is a big step is your life and everyone around you. Its an amazing thing and its something to be excited about...but its not all fun and games as all of us know. But im sure many girls can relate to having hopes of being pregnant somewhere in the back of there mind.

 

Summer - January 24

thanks...the thing is also i dont consider it a "scare". and ths funny this is last night i had another dream about pregnancy in which i woke up, smiled and said "im pregnant" outloud. i have no idea if this was still a dream thing but my period comes on tomarrow if its comeing...Thanks for helping me not feel guilty.

 

Summer - January 24

UPDATE: i got my period a day EARLY. im hopeing its just that light bleeding but i doubt it sence its so close to my period. Oh wel....Thanks andrea.

 

tara - January 24

It's very natural for a young girl your age to have desires and fantacies about having a baby. Especially if you are in love with your bf, then the next best thing many think about is having a child to secure the relationship. But I suggest while these hopes and desires are natural and common to think realistically about your status. You are yet to graduate and there is still college to think about...plus a move to another state. Live life for a while and enjoy this time while you are young & in love. you have years and years ahead of you to become a mother yet. so just enjoy life for now :o)

 

Andrea - January 24

Summer, It may not be your period if its really light, some women get just spotting and mistake it for their period. But good luck in whatever comes your way!!!!

 

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