2 Pregnant Girls 1 Torn Guy 1 Sticky Situation HELP

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jane - February 9

I was with this BOY for 6 months, 3 of which I lived with him. I am 19. He is 21. On New Years eve he dropped the bomb on me telling me the girl who he had been with before me, was 7 months pregnant with his kid. She had supposedly had a miscarriage. We broke up and they got back together. Last month I THOUGHT I got my period. Turns out it wasn't, and I am 2 months pregnant. I told him and he says he just doesn't know how he can pick between the two. She will leave the country (which she can do legally because she is puerto rican) with his kid. (and I know this because she has had a 'feeling' I was pregnant and has already told him so. He suggests an abortion because I am only two. I am terrified of being a single mother (I have no family to help me), but he doesn't want to lose his kid with her. I don't know what to do. Generally I am against abortion but the situation is sensitive. I know that the other girl wouldn't ever let him see our child and would probably be hateful to it. (she HATES me). Any insight would be helpful, I don't know what to do.

 

cheryl - February 9

Before you consider abortion please look up pictures of aborted babies on the internet. If you consider the adoption option visit this website http://www.geocities.com/bctraveler2000/child.html If you need someone to talk to you can email me [email protected] best wishes to you in your time of need, and good luck

 

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