Dad Is Totally On Board But I M Not Sure If He S Serious

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Advice Girl - November 20

ok my fience is totally on board with be possible being pregnant but i'm still not sure if i am or not. i'm also not sure if he's being serious about wanting to be a daddy, granted he has stopped doing some of the things that would harm me or the baby but still...he told me that he is so excited about being a daddy, that this may help him grow up a little. i told him that being a dad doesn't make things easier it makes things much much harder. he said he knows but he really wants me to be, and lately i've been wanting to be pregnant as well it's been a week and 6 days and i'm wondering when would be the best time to take a test??

 

V9653 - November 20

I'm sorry to say this but you don't sound prepare for a baby....or you sound pregnant. Your head is all over the place and that only gets way worse when the stick changes to positive. Here's what I always say, if your guy has been living an unhealthy lifestyle for a child, then I wouldn't take the risk of pregnancy for 6 months to a year. I say that because if it's drugs then you can't really trust that someone is really sober until theyve been clean for a lump some of time, also you want to make sure all that c___p is out of their system. If it's lifestyles like partying and bad choices I still say the same so you can feel comforted that he is ready to settle down. Right now it doesn't seem like you are so rea__sured! Like I've said before, the best time to take a bought pee-stick test is when your period is due. But I forgot to tell you that you can go to the doctor and ask for a blood test like ten days after ovulation.

 

FABIOLA - December 4

WELL IM NOT SURE IF IM PREGNANT EITHER BUT I AM WAITING BECAUSE THEY TOLD ME AT PLANNED PARENTHOOD THAT U HAVE TO BE 6 WEEKS TO TAKE THE BLOOD TEST ND WELL IF I AM I HAVE 1 MONTH ON TUESDAY ND WELL IM SINGLE CUZ THE BBY DADDY LEFT BUT IN UR SITUATION WHEN THEY DO DRUGS ND STUFF ITS SO MUCH HARDER FOR U TO GET PREGNANT!!! SO DONT FREAK OUT [[YET]]

 

Advice Girl - December 9

Well he quit doing drugs when we had s_x the second time, see this is my problem i had gotten my period about a week ago and it flowing like no tomorrow. and now that it's stopped me and him did "it" again this time we had a condom on and just our luck it broke so i don't know what to really do right now.

 

Grandpa Viv - December 9

Condoms should not break if used properly. Check the Use By date, correct lubricants, a pocket left at the end to hold the s____n, but no bubble of air in it, foreskin pulled back - practice putting one on him as part of foreplay. The chance of getting pregnant from s_x the day your period ends (Cycle Day 6?) is pretty low. The fertile window on a 28 day cycle is days 8 thru 16. Stay away from that, and use condoms the rest of the time and you will be pretty safe. Use v____al spermicide too, for extra safety. Don't forget about PlanB in case of a big panic - expensive, but a bunch cheaper than a baby! GL!

 

Advice Girl - December 10

but see i'm trying to get get pregnant well kinda i want it but then again i know i should wait

 

Mikesgirl - December 10

The best time to take a test is 6 weeks after you have s_x with the guy that you want a baby with. You know that its going to be hard to take care of you and your body when your going to school and trying to deal with things at home. I know i can't talk very long when i say that but i know how it is. I hope that you understand that i'm not trying to be mean i'm just trying to help you understand that its not a bowl of cherries.Love your girl.

 

Advice Girl - December 10

hey mikesgirl is that why you wanted to transfer your baby to me ?? Live is full of cherries but i found my strawberry's, rainbows and b___terflies

 

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