Abortion Question

31 Replies
just me - July 22

when do you abort your baby? like when it has the due date?? is there some way your parents won't find out your pregnant while your still living with them??

 

Jane - June 2

Even if your parents find out thats not the worst part you will be murdering a child that god created even if it was a mistake you will have to live with the fact of having an abortion your whole life how old are you? i think im pregnant right now but i would never get an abortion adoption is an option but abortion is murder you should talk to your parents they will always love you no matter what they will help you through your problems pregnancy is not a real accident god creates that life and for someone to destroy it is a sin

 

Shelly - June 2

You need to talk to someone at your local heath clinic. They can answer all of your questions for you. Do what is right for you, and don't let anyone make you fee guilty. No one but you can know what is right for you. Think about talking to your parents. They can help you best.

 

just me - June 2

if i talk to my parents they will KICK ME OUT.. im pretty sure.. they are sooo strict..

 

Pissed off - June 2

Just me, s_x outside of wedlock is a sin, and ABORTION IS AN EVEN BIGGER ONE. U HAVE TO TELL YOUR PARENTS. You can always adopt, but abortion, come on. How would you feel if you were told that your mother wanted to abort you. You made a choice and now you have to deal with the consequences. CHILD

 

jane - June 3

look whoever "p__sed off" is they need to shut their mouth about s_x outside of wedlock is a sin because mistakes happen i lost my virginity unplanned things happen

 

Shelly - June 3

If you really don't feel comfortable talking to your parents, talk to an adult you do feel comfortable with. They can help you talk to your parents. You could ask them to be there with you and help you to communicate in the best way. Your parents are probably going to find out anyway. Things will be better if they hear it from you rather than someone else. Having really strict parents usually means they care a lot. After their initial shock, they will work with you on a way to handle the problem. To help you get a handle on their reaction, you might want to think about how your parents are with other people. Do they do volunteer work? Do they help out their friends? Are they basically good people? Try to see your parents as people, rather than parents, you might feel differently about them. Parents are just people, they aren't perfect. It's just their job to do the best they can for their children and protect them. In a situation where a parent finds out that they have failed at there job, there are bound to be strong feelings. These feelings can be worked through and the result can be a closer relationship. I hope this makes some sense to you. Good luck, I hope things work out well for you. This is a really life changing experience you're going through. P.S. Ignore all the angry, unhelpful posts here.

 

KAY - June 16

NO SIN IS BIGGER THAN ANOTHER. FIRST OF ALL, HAVING s_x BEFORE MARRIAGE REALLY IS A SIN. ITS CALLED FOREIGNICATION. LOOK IT UP. SECOND OF ALL, DONT MAKE YOUR CHILD PAY FOR YOUR MISTAKE.YOU MADE IT, NOW TAKE CARE OF IT. YOU WILL BE A MURDERER. YOU'LL REGRET IT LATER. JHON LOCKS IDEAS WERE LIFE, LIBERTY, AND HAPPINESS. YOUR TAKING AWAY YOUR BABY'S RIGHT OF LIFE. YOU MIGHT AS WELL KILL YOUR MOTHER. THE ONLY DIFFERANCE WOULD BE THE AGE.

 

Jenn - June 21

Have an abortion. I've had one with my fiance and I don't regret it one single bit.

 

Alba - June 24

See i am only fifteen and like about 2 months ago i had an abortion and really regret it even if u get one maybe not now later on it will haunt you and it could cost you your life or even not allow you to ever have kids. I am not here to judge the decision is on you. And there is only till a certain point which you can hide your pregnancy. And your parents might feel dissapointed but trust me they will love your baby more than anything its a part of your family and your flesh and blood something that you can actually call yours and love and nobody can take that away from you. Give that baby a chance to live just like your parents gave you a chance. Go get checked make sure your ok and your baby and then when you are ready tell your parents or get someone else to tell them or even write a letter. a BABY IS NO0T A CONSEQUENCE OF A MISTAKE. Its the most beautiful thing god can give a girl or a woman cherish that baby and give it all the love in the world you need it as much as it needs u

 

pooja - July 3

when we eat papaya did it abor tthe pregnancy?

 

~*~Jessica~*~ - July 3

Normally you can abort the baby until 16 weeks i think. Don't listen to what the religious people say. Most of them are hyprocrites. Having an abortion is YOUR choice, no one elses! In response to "KAY" Life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, is for everyone. If you won't be happy with a child, you don't have to have it. Sometimes circ_mstances prevent you from doing the so called "right thing". But the right thing is different for everyone. There is a law in this land, it is "a woman has the right to abort a child if she so wishes" i.e. Roe vs. Wade! There is a reason for that. It is to keep people from making someone have a child if they don't want to. If we got rid of that, then women will go back to using coat hangers and such to abort an unwanted child. Just my opinion.

 

b___bear - July 4

Im pretty sure its only up to 2-3 months. There is pleanty of abortion clinics that do it without parental consent. Look into those, but be careful.

 

Ty - July 5

There are other solutions other than abortion.Its not your childs fault that you had s_x,got pregnant and now don't want the responsibility.Have you considered adoption??I've given two up and it wasn't easy,but I didn't have the right to kill them.

 

sara - July 7

what if u dont know if you had s_x, but your boy friend wants to get testede the day after u think u might have had s_x?

 

Meagan - July 8

You should tell your parents. I doubt they will kick you out. They may be very upset at first, but you are their daughter and nothing can change that, not even the choices you have made that they don't like. When you go to tell them, let them know that you know you made a mistake, and it's hard on you too, and that you need their help. Then, they can either help you through the pregnancy, or help you make other decisions. I do think it's wrong to have an abortion since it wasn't the baby's fault that you slept with someone else, and you will have to live with that. No matter what decision you make, you will have to live with it. Whether you keep the baby, abort the baby, or give it up for adoption. They are choices only you can make. I hope someone on here has helped you. E-mail me anytime. [email protected] God bless.

 

SaRaH - July 8

LOOK I AM NOT HERE TO DEGRADE OR TALK DOWN TO ANYONE, BUT I KNOW THAT ABORTION IS THE PERSONS CHOICE. WHAT I DONT UNDERSTAND IS HOW CAN PEOPLE JUST SO FREELY GIVE ADVICE TO OTHERS THAT IT IS OK???? IS THERE NO CONCIENCE OF YOU FEMALES THAT THINK 2 OR 3 OR HOWEVER MANY OF THESE ARE OK?????? I AM ASKING! I AM CURIOUS BECAUSE IT IS ALWAYS A QUESTION TO NEW PREGNANT PEOPLE. I THINK THAT NOONE HAS ROOM TO JUDGE ANOTHER BUT SOME OF US HAVE MORALS AND SELF VALUES THAT WE THINK IT IS JUST WRONG, BUT LIKE I ALSO NEED TO SAY WE ARE ONLY HUMAN AS WELL!!!!!!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!

 

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