Adoption

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Jessica - March 30

I am 17 and the mother to an 8 month old baby girl...she is the love and light of my life! I am raising her all on my own and trying to finish high school and hopefully fufill my dream of becoming a lawyer. I am also pregnant...again. I am due in the middle of June and I am really reall scared! I am looking into adoption...I reallt think it will give him the best chance at life. Does anyone know anything about adoption? Have you ben touched by adoption in some way (birthparent, adoptive parent, adoptee...?). I really could use some input, advice, whatever whould HELP!?!

 

Re: Jessica - March 30

I am an adoptive mom to a 4 year old son. If you would like to talk email me at [email protected]

 

TO JESSICA - March 30

I AM LOOKING TO ADOPT. FEEL FREE TO EMAIL [email protected] BEST WISHES

 

sarah c - March 30

I know of two people who've done the same thing you're thinking about. Having two kids is not twice as difficult, it's maybe four times as difficult! a woman I worked with had a 2nd daughter while young, poor, and in a bad relationship. She felt sad about it, but knew it was best. Her story has a happy ending, 20 years later. They saw the girl when she was grownwhile they were shopping, and recognized her, because she looks exactly like them! They all have a good relationship now. My brother and sister in law could not conceive, but adopted from a couple who already had one child together. They were in their late 20's but still struggling to raise the first child. They were heart broken to give their boy up, but they selected my brother and sister in law, and are able to receive updates about him. We love him tremendously. I think that even in considering this, you are brave and selfless, a truly great mother.

 

Cheryl - March 30

I am looking to adopt. you can email me [email protected]

 

Grandpa Viv - March 30

http://www.birthmother.org

 

clare - March 30

me and my brother simon were adopted and im not sayin dnt do it but it makes the child feel unluved.i remember wen me and my brother were really young we useed to ask why we were unluved and nobody wanted us and wat we had done wrong to r momy and dady infact i think tht is wat was the worst thing in my life :-( but its totally up 2 u

 

katie - March 30

to clare-tht is such a sad story but im sure it wudnt b easy on jessicia tryin to raise to young kids but gd luck to u jessicia on watever u decide xxx katie

 

Amy - March 30

Girl you can email or Im my friend. She could talk to you and help you out...her yahoo id is [email protected]

 

Tay - March 30

I am also considering putting my baby up for adoption. You're realy brave. Is it hard raising your 8 month old?

 

Oliviah - March 30

i honestly think adoptiong is a defiinate go...i know how it is..i was adopted..when i was older, and my little sister when she was 3wks...it was harder on me cause i was older..but my little sister loves my parents and thinks of them as her own...so i would say that its an awesome option.

 

jennie - March 30

i am a military spouse and we are trying to adopt...we are willing to do an open adoption so if you wanna talk email me at [email protected]

 

Julia - March 30

Adoption is a very noble choice. It takes love and strength on your part to be able to give baby up for adoption. If you feel that adoption is right for you and baby then do it. But be very sure its really want you want and what YOU think is best for baby. Only you can make that choice. I myself have been hoping to adopt for 3 years now. My husband and I have came close 3 times in the last 2 months. Once mom changed her mind...which I understand, it hurt but understandable. The other 2 the birth moms lost baby. My husband and I want to adopt, but only if Mom is sure. We would never want to make mom feel pressured into anything. We are willing to do a open adoption if mom wants to. That is where mom can have contact with baby and baby can get to know siblings. I hope that before you make your final decsion that you pray about it. My husband is a preacher and we always pray about all decisions. Just a piece of advise. Good Luck and God Bless........if you ever just want to talk your welcome to email me [email protected] or AIM iluvdiamonds74 oxoxox

 

ANNE - April 28

[email protected] Dear Jessica, we are hopeful adoptive parents. My Mom was also a birthmom when she was 16 and placed my brother. THey reunited when he was 21. We are looking to match with a birthmom for an open private adoption. Please email me as we would love to talk with you. I hope you are feeling well.

 

Amanda - May 1

Hi there jessica if you do decide to put your baby up for adoption me and my husband have been trying for over a year to have a baby. We are still trying but i do not ovulate. we both want a child more then anything in our life we currently have no children if you decide to please please consider us and email me and i will tell you anything that you want to know about us.... [email protected]

 

? - May 1

Jessica is adopting her baby to Julia.

 

Mr & Mrs Loper - May 12

To Jessica, WE ARE A LOVING MARRIED CHRISTIAN COUPLE WAITING WITH OPEN ARMS AND HEARTS TO BE A FOR EVER FAMILY TO A NEW BORN. WE CAN DO OPEN ADOPTION OR WHAT EVER YOU WANT.WE WOULD ENJOY A PRECIOUS LITTLE BLESSING. IF YOU WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT US FEEL FREE TO WRITE TO US AND ASK US. WE ARE LOOKING FOR A BIRTHMOTHER THAT IS LOOKING FOR A GOOD HOME FOR HER BABY.

 

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