Am I Pregnant -pg58

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samantha - June 23

i am thirteen, and im relly scared because i think im pregnant. i only slept with my bf once, and i know it was a mistake. i am always sleepy and really tired. i am always having mood swings. i've missed my period. i eat like a pig. at my mom's conference dinner, i couldnt eat any of the meat, let alone anything else on the table because i threw up too many times. i feel nauseous in the morning. if i find out im pregnant, my mom and dad will kill me. i am so scared. please help me.

 

Shelly - June 23

Your parents wont kill you. You're their baby. They will just feel like they did something wrong. They will be OK after the shock wears off. You need to take a test. It would probably be better for you to talk to your mom beforehand and have her help you do it. You do have a lot of symptoms. You need to have some loving support at this time in your life. As well as some serious help and guidance. Ask these support people your questions, and they will help you figure it out. You might think about seeing a counselor with your parents Everything will be OK. Just get some help from someone you can talk to in person. I will also be here for you if you want to email, or talk on MSN. Best of luck to you. Love, Shelly [email protected]

 

samantha - June 23

i cant talk to my mom. i would be embara__sed to. i dont have any money to go to the doctor. if i asked my mom for the money, she would want to know what it was for. i dont want to lie to her. if i got a test from the drugstore, my mom would find out.

 

d_ashly - June 23

talk to your mom. she wont kill you. i thought the same thing but everything turned out fine after alittle time. you need to find out asap if youre pregnant, which it seems like you are, that way you can start getting prenatal care to ensure that you and your possible baby are healthy and out of harms way. you cant let the fear of embarressment stop you, you need guidence.

 

Shelly - June 23

This is a really difficult time for you. You are going to have to push past any embara__sment you have and get some help. The sooner you know if you r pregnant or not, the more options you will have. It's really important to get tested right away. You're right not to want to start out lying, it would only make things worse. If you really don't feel comfortable talking to your parents, talk to an adult you do feel comfortable with. Tell them that you're really scared. They can take you to your local county health clinic or planned parenthood to get tested.They can also help you talk to your parents. You could ask them to be there with you and help you to communicate in the best way. Your parents are probably going to find out anyway. Things will be better if they hear it from you rather than someone else. You can do this. Everything will work out in the end. Be strong. Love, Shelly

 

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