Am I Pregnant 14 Year Old

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princessAG - July 10

hun im not gunna be ignorant to yu. im just gunna be brutally honest. i am 15 thought i was preggo. as far as i kno im not. yes its true. that ur boyfriend will be thynkin ' i cnt NOT be wit this girl..she has my kid." so that may make u feel more secure. but thynk bout the future. if he cant stay with yu and be with yu because he loves yu and u need a baby to keep you guys together. i dun thnyk u guys hav a good relaitonship in thie first place. Love means you will stay together thru anythyng. and i kno ur not that stupid and i kno u see that most of the tyme . the boyfriends fynd it too hard and leave the girls..as much as they sai they love yu. trust me..ikno.. so please. jus be careful. ur whole teenage life is going to go down the drain and ur gunna feel so lost. i would highly recomend you jsut a wait a few years. and if u man sticks by you til then. then good for yu guys. thats my opinion. so thhynk about it.

 

DorothyL - July 10

UMMM EVERY0NE IN HERE NEEDS T0 ST0P BEING S0 MEAN T0 THIS GIRL...ANYWAYS, ISABEL, IM N0T G0ING T0 SAY D0NT HAVE A CHILD, BECAUSE IT ISN'T MY PLACE T0 D0 S0. WHEN IT C0MES T0 FINANCIALS, PE0PLE TEND T0 FALL0W WHAT THE MEDIA SAYS AND WHAT S0CIETY SAYS AB0UT HAVING T0 HAVE A L0T 0F M0NEY T0 HAVE A CHILD. I ALS0 BELEIVE THAT THERE ARE MANY CHILDREN THAT GREW UP N0T HAVING ANYTHING AT ALL BUT LEARN T0 APPRTIATE LIFE F0R WHAT IT IS AND N0T F0R MATERIALISTIC THINGS. Y0UR SITUATI0N MAKES SENCE IN THE EYES THAT UNDERSTAND THAT AT 14 Y0U D0 L0VE Y0UR PARENTS JUST AS WELL AS Y0U C0ULD L0VE Y0UR B0YFRIEND. THE MATURITY LEVEL IN Y0U DEPENDS 0N EXPERIENCE...N0T AGE.... THINK DEEPLY AND ASK URSELF H0W MUCH HAVE Y0U EXPERIENCED? ARE Y0U ABLE T0 TEACH A CHILD M0ST 0F THE THINGS HE/SHE NEEDS T0 KN0W FR0M Y0UR EXPERIENCE 0N THIS EARTH? 0K... LETS F0RGET EXPERIENCE. ARE Y0U ABLE T0 L0VE THIS CHILD THAT Y0U WANT M0RE THEN Y0UR B0YFRIEND? CAN Y0U SWEAR THAT Y0U C0ULD DIE F0R THIS CHILD? 0K... F0RGET L0VE..... D0 Y0U KN0W H0W A BABY DEVEL0PES INSIDE 0F Y0U? WHAT STAGES IN PREGNANCY THAT THEY CAN HEAR Y0UR V0ICE? 0R FEEL WHAT U FEEL? anyways...

 

lilmomma88 - July 10

Let me tell you something little girl, i'm not going to be mean, but just because you have a baby does NOT mean you and your boyfriend will stay together forever!! In fact...85% of teens who have a baby together do not stay together! I am 17 and my boyfriend is 18 and we just had a baby 2 weeks ago, and let me tell you, YOU CANNOT HANDLE IT! It's the hardest thing anyone could ever do! You are just a baby yourself don't go and TRY to have one just because you think you love your boyfriend...I gaurantee that by this time next year you two won't even be together! Baby or not! I'm sorry normally I don't judge people but it is just sickening to see a 14 year old WANTING a pregnancy!

 

ash2 - July 11

isabel, i really dont think your pregnant. and having s_x 36 times is pointless if you are not ovulating. you are just a baby, and you need to stay at home and go to school and be with your parents. if i was your mother, i would never let you out of my sight untill you were 18. because the way you are talking, you are a little hoochie mama who is bound for trouble. and again, this boy will end up leaving you or cheating on you, because he too is too young to be strapped down doing the "family thing". you wil be left hurt and alone . stay a little girl,because once your a mama, there is no turning back.

 

oxocrazybabiioxo - July 11

omg gurl ur so young.. a baby sud be the last tiem on ur mind.... having a abby is not easy... and when u think ur ready thats the time were ur just think u need a baby to hold u and hubby down... so if thats the thing jsut remeber a guy doesnt need to stay for anything.. he might be tryn to make u suffer and srry to tell u as far as u too runing away thats were u kno he dont cre for u cuz if so he wudnt have let u run away... gurl stop tryn to have a baby ur rushing ur life.. a baby is not easy... its bringin someone eles is to this world that has a lot of needs and how do u expect to give it all the needs it is consists of... u cant live off of other people... u have ur life ahead of u dnt try to rush thnigs now ull never be able to liev ur fun years... jsut a few wrods of advice

 

Emma2 - July 11

Have you all noticed that tbhis post is 1 YEAR old? Why are you all responding to an old post ...Let these oldies die off and answer the relevent ones.

 

oxocrazybabiioxo - July 11

i didnt mean to come off on the wrong foot.. but baby ur so young... let me tell u i kno thsi gurl who 17 n has a 4 yr old son and a lil baby gurl... its not eay she depends on everyone and life u cant be like that... a baby is a gift... n only created when two people are in lvoe... and if ur in love the most i can say is go for it.. things are hard but u can always try to make the best of it..

 

tulipbaroo - July 13

Ruin your life if you must.

 

tealtater - July 16

alright...I'm not going to tell you NOT to have one, because 1) it isn't my place to tell you that and 2) it wont do any good, but I will be brutally honest with you. If you think you really want it, then you're not gonna listen to all these people who you don't know but have you're best interest at heart and thought. The hting is, I'm 15 and I'm pretty sure I'm pregnant, even though I haven't been to a doctor yet... I'm also pretty sure I'm not ready for a baby yet. Though I'm not going to have an abortion, I kinda wish I hadn't been so stupid. You're parents are right to keep you home and not let you see him. Especially if they know you actually are TRYING to get pregnant. And lemme tell ya somethin' else: guys aren't always there and a baby will NOT make them stay around. My parents are divorced... Do yout hink they'd be divorced if a child will hold a marriage together? They have 2 children: me and my brother. So apparently, a child won't glue a relationship forever. I've had 4 boyfriends (though many on this forum has probably had a lot more ecperiance than me) previous to the one I have now (who has luckily said he's gonna be there for me) and 2 of them tried to get me in the bed with them. Now, you think about it. The first one was a h__y jerk that jsut wanted s_x. I was around 13 at the time. If I had have let him go for it, I'd most likely have been pregnant all ready even before now. The thing about it was he cheated on me. Even though he said he loved me more than anything, that he's always be there... he cheated on me with a bunch of other girls. Are you sure you want to chance that? Are you sure you REALLY want this for a child who doesn't deserve to have to deal with your stupidity? It's stupid to want a baby and TRY to have one at the young and naive age of 14. I really thought that guy had loved me... all along though, he's lied to me. Are you really sure you can trust this guy??? By the sound of it, i would think not. You ran away to have a baby... what are you gonna do if the baby gets sick, or if you get sick? OR what if anything else happens or goes wrong? Are you just gonna "run away"??? You can't do that with babies. So you should really think about this before you do it. It culd ruin your life forever to have a child right now. And like someone else said: your body is still developing at 14... your health (mental, physical, AND emotional) could be ruined for a long time, or worse. Or you could be fine, but the baby could die and cause problems for you, making it virtually impossible to ever have children again. Like I said, you should really htink about this. And you, not to sound mean, should probably get help for this addiction you seem to possibly have to s_x. A child will not keep you together forever. A child will not hold a man, much less a BOY, to you forever. Now yous hould htink about what I and all these other people have said and decide: do you really want to do this??? (Sorry if this offends anyone, but I'm pretty much one of those people that speaks my mind and I'm typically brutally honest with people....and it really makes me mad that she WANTS a baby... so again, I'm sorry if this offends anyone.)

 

Rebekah B - July 19

Get an education first before you bring a kid into the world. Stop thinking of yourself.

 

lily412 - July 19

if you are running away from home ur not ready for a child. You should be able to afford you own place before u can have a child thats a big step there cute but not easy to handle think about go babysit someone elses kid for a couple of days. With is prob much easier anyways cause u can return those a real baby u cant.

 

lily412 - July 19

not a real baby i meant ur own baby sorry

 

PrettyShadows - July 20

in my opinion you shouldn't even be having s_x at the age of 14 let alone trying for a baby! At 14 i was more interested in my friends and clothes than boyfriends. Infact I was still best friends with my fiancee then. May i ask you how long you have been with your boyfriend? Because if you feel you need to have a child to hold you together so young then thats, to be frank, pathetic. He's never going to stay if he doesn't want to. Baby or no baby. And in the end you'll end up with no love for this child who was there to hold you together yet failed at it. Your body isn't even ready enough for a baby yet. You could make yourself infertile by getting pregnant at such a young age. Do you want to have a child and then be infertile? i don't like to judge people but i applaud you at your stupidity. Wait a few years and lets say you're 17 and still with this guy who you love so much, finished school and he works...then try for a baby. But not before that. And having a period during pregnancy is very very uncommon. Running away is very immature, which proves that you aren't ready for a child yet! why don' you get a pet or something?

 

krystina - July 20

i know how you feel when you say you really want a baby .. cause when i was 14 i would look at all the cute little babies i'd see and tell myself i really wanted one .. but reality check hun .. you ARE too young! youre 14!! you'd have a 4 year old by the time you're a legal adult a SEVEN year old when you're 21. i used to run away when i was younger and if you're doing that you are deff. too immature to raise a child. at your age you most likely dont have a job either, so how would u expect to support a baby?!!? give yourself ATLEAST another 5 years to grow up and mature before you think about having kids. I'm 18 and 8 months pregnant and I realized im not even mature enough or ready for the commitment I already made so my parents are adopting the baby ... so please think it through cause you;re going to end up regretting it

 

HaleyBaby - July 21

im 14 also and i have protected s_x, but yet i still am starting to have my signs of being pregnant. i may be pregnant, but not on purpose. i dont think at this age we shud be having babies. i cud see if you were pregnant at this age by accident, but not on purpose. after reading all these peoples adivices, think agan about being pregnant cause their right. your goin to regret it, trust me, your only a teen once in ur life, so live it. you'll have lotsa time to get pregnant and go on wellfair, cause thats what it looks like what your lookin for in life.

 

HaleyBaby - July 21

if this is a year old, i really wanna know if she had the child or not! lol i really wanna see how she is doin, regret it yet? HOWS LYF WIT THA BABIII!?!?!?!?

 

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