An Introduction Of Sorts

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MourningLullabys - February 13

I'm not quite new to the site though it's been nearly a year since I last logged on. For those who don't know me, which I can safely assume most if not all don't, my name is Meygan and I'm seventeen years of age, nearing eighteen in a few more months. My reasons for returning to the site may be rather obvious, there is a possibility of my being pregnant. Nothing has been determined as of yet. A test will be taken this weekend to confirm or falsify my susp___sions. As I'm sure questions will eventually arise on the matter, I will explain the situation. I started seeing a co-worked of mine. It was fairly casual to start, him driving me home from work, calling, texting and so forth. Things were taken to a new level one night at work. It was late, the store was empty and I had already clocked out but wasn't ready to head home just yet. He sent me a text requesting that I come to the back where he was working. Thinking nothing of it I obliged. Well from there one thing just led to another which resulted in unprotected s_x. I kicked myself is the butt the next day for that stunt. It was the day after my period ended so though there was still a chance I didn't allow my mind to run with the idea. Him and I have had s_x (protectected of course) two additional times. My concern comes from the fact that during my most recent encounter the condom broke. Unfortunately this happened to occur during what would likely have been ovulation. I wasn't considering pregnancy until my partner mentioned it to me due to my complaining of the way I had been feeling (nausea to the point where I didn't want to eat, extremely fatigued, bloating and highly sensitive nipples). I am very well aware that these minor symtoms could be caused from a variety of things other than pregnancy. My period is due within the next few days and if it doesn't appearing to be approaching then a test will be taken this weekend. I am merely seeking advice when questions arise and someone friendly to speak with about concerns and other things that come about. I do not wish to be criticized or to cause problems. If for any reason either of those accur or it is wished, I will take my leave from the site. I appreciate the time any of you took to read this. Thank you. Ciao for now. ~Meygan~

 

Teddyfinch - February 14

yeah i don't think you're 17, but good luck with your testing. whether you'd like to be pregnant or not, good luck either way.

 

MourningLullabys - February 14

Teddy, I understand your skepticism in what I say and I take no offense to it, though I a__sure you that I am indeed seventeen. I would rather not get into the argument over the internet about what age I am. If I could give you proof I would do so, but nearly everything online can be faked as you know. I would apologise for not sounding my age through the way I type, but I am far from ashamed of it. I'm sure nearly every other girl my age has made this claim, but I am not quite like every other seventeen year old. I pride myself in maturity, though I do have my childish moments as we all do. Anyways, I thank you for the wishes of luck. It's soothing on the nerves. I straddle the fence on this one. I wasn't looking to get pregnant though if I happen to be so then I find it a blessing. I've thought about having children for a few years now. The whole having hormones thing tends to do that, though I know very well I should establish myself before I go attempting to get pregnant. I see the way my sister (age 35) lives with her five children and I refuse to allow myself to live so disgracefully. Sorry to have run off on my own tangent. I appreciate the honesty, whether good or bad. I have decided to try to take a pregnancy test in the morning if I can make it out to the store tonight. *sigh* I'm impatient and well I have other things I need to focus on without wondering whether or not there is a new life growing within me. Thanks again. Ciao for now. ~Meygan~

 

Teddyfinch - February 14

actually, i could care less what age you are. you do not speak like a seventeen year old and i won't change my mind on that. so there is no argument against my opinion. i can also tell that you're either not from the US or not currently in the US. or faking it. however, if your use of grammar and capitalisation (i can't be bothered hitting shift lol) is any indication of your maturity, i think you'll be alright. let us know what the test says because i'm dying to know lol. oh, if i may, how does your sister having five children make her disgraceful?

 

Teddyfinch - February 14

my grandmother on my mom's side had seven kids and my grandmother on my father's side had eight, so i don't see any disgrace in that.

 

PreciousBaby19 - February 14

I find it funny that.....this is my name..mourning lullabys. on another website...lol. anyway just find it funny. lol but i dunno. take a test because thats the only way you can find out if your pregnant. Oher than that. i do have to agree with teddy. I find nooo shame whats so ever in people who have more than 4 kids. So....

 

MourningLullabys - February 14

Oh please don't misunderstand, I find nothing wrong with having multiple children, that is as long as you can care for them properly. I personally prefer a large family. I find them to be warm and welcoming. My sister having five children is a disgrace in my opinion for the fact that she doesn't care for them. She wanted babies, not children. She spends her days online playing some game or sleeping. She pretty much ignores the children unless they become too loud for her liking. They are all in school and she won't, let me rephrase, can't help them with their homework. The computer and television are far more important than the children, or so it appears to me. She doesn't do the housework, instead she has the two oldest (fourteen and eleven) do it. I'm surprised when I see her sweep the house. Teddy, I am from the U.S. and have actually never left. English grammar has always been my strong suit, especially since I spend what free time I have writing. Precious, I think it's rather funny as well that we share the same login though for two different sites. Perhaps it says something about personal tastes. I will keep you all posted on what happens with my test. I'm trying to calm myself down and not panic so much. Saturday is only a day and some odd hours away. I'm anxious and apprehensive all at the same time. ~Meygan~

 

Teddyfinch - February 14

i think i've heard of it. cronous that is. but yeah the accent is really nice. although i'm so used to hearing it from my hubby i don't even notice it anymore. just don't tell him it sounds british lol. the aussies don't like the british haha. as far as what's going on, i mean what happened happened. but i'm wondering are you late at all? if so, test tonight. and you said you're due in a few days so i'd say it's possibly early enough to tell, but waiting until the weekend would give you a more definite answer. i just say take it tonight because i have PoaS syndrome lol.

 

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