Baby Number 2

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shawna - April 11

well i am 22 and i am 17 weeks pregnant with my second baby. my other child is almost 2. both babies have the same daddy and we are getting married in 4 days. here is my problem. he is in the army and will be away for the next few months until we can go with him. i had been living with my mom until i found out i was pregnant. i now have my own apartment. i tried to tell her i was pregnant when i found out and she blew up so i let it go. and now i think i have waited too long. now i need to tell her without hurting her feelings. the babies dads parents already know and are fine with it. my mom is just weird sometimes. i hate to tell her right before my wedding when she has put so much work into it. but i have to tell her before friday b/c i dont want someone else to tell her before i do that is what happened with my son.

 

Jeanna - April 11

You could tell her before the wedding, she could over-react and refuse to go, or get all happy about you, since you are 22 and are getting married soon...Or, you could wait until after the wedding, may be tell her you got pregnant on the honey moon or something, or tell her the truth, you'd be married already anyway

 

shawna - April 11

thanks for answering but its isnt even the fact that i am not married, it is just that i wasnt scared to tell her but now i am or was b/c she acted crazy when i tried to tell her. so now i am 4 months along. i should start showing any day. with my son i was already showing by this point. i think she will be hurt b/c i didnt tell her sooner.

 

Eden - April 11

you might as well tell her .I think you are old enough.Most parent b__w up like that because they still thin of us as there little girl.But ou should let her because it would hurt if she heard about it from someone else AGAIN

 

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