Been Where You Are Ask Me Anything

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jelly belly2005 - November 8

i just wanted to pop in and say hi to all the teen mommys in here. i had my daughter when i was 16 and am now 20 pregnant with #2...im very excited. im due 6/25/05. i would like to be here for any of you who need some one to talk to. i work in the medical feild and teach a pregnancy class just for teen girls. this is going to be a tough few months but just remember even through the dirty looks and comments there are people who dont care who and how old you are...every one just worry about you and your lil peanut growing!!! remember ask me anything!!!

 

Ashley - November 10

did u keep your first baby

 

helpppp - November 10

i have a question how long should i wait before i take a pregnancy test i THINK i am suppose to start on nov 26th or sumwhere right after that i had s_x and my bf came in me on oct 28th 29th and twice on the 31st and then again on nov 5th 7th and 9th i took a test today and it came back negative did i take it 2 early?????

 

arianna - November 11

to answer your question yes i did keep my daughter who is now 3 years old. it was the hardest but right choice for my now husband and i....im only 20 years old now and have missed out on soo much in life..my prom, the parties,the shopping...the just being free!!! i lost all my youth to another life. i dont regret my choice but wish i had been smarter so i didnt have to be in the postion to even make a choice like that. your teen and early twenties really are the best years of your life it is when you can take that time for just YOU and nobody else..i had to do all that with a child while playing lifes games!! it was very hard but i didnt want to be labled as a typical young mother so i got a degree and now work with girls going through what i did. i dont know if you are trying to get preg or not and im not judging your choice but from what i have had to give up and do the past three years please re think and use birth control....accidents happen and if you are preg you have many choices to make and you have to make them for you and the child growing inside of you..nobody else. to answer you next question even the best preg test do not give a positive until at least one day after you missed your period..so you are going to have to wait, which is hard i know and personally i would wait to stop testing after your period is a week late because i did not get a positive with this preg untill i was ten days late and i tested every day!!! let me know what happens and we can talk agian then..good luck! arianna

 

jelly belly2005 - November 11

to answer your question yes i did keep my daughter who is now 3 years old. it was the hardest but right choice for my now husband and i....im only 20 years old now and have missed out on soo much in life..my prom, the parties,the shopping...the just being free!!! i lost all my youth to another life. i dont regret my choice but wish i had been smarter so i didnt have to be in the postion to even make a choice like that. your teen and early twenties really are the best years of your life it is when you can take that time for just YOU and nobody else..i had to do all that with a child while playing lifes games!! it was very hard but i didnt want to be labled as a typical young mother so i got a degree and now work with girls going through what i did. i dont know if you are trying to get preg or not and im not judging your choice but from what i have had to give up and do the past three years please re think and use birth control....accidents happen and if you are preg you have many choices to make and you have to make them for you and the child growing inside of you..nobody else. to answer you next question even the best preg test do not give a positive until at least one day after you missed your period..so you are going to have to wait, which is hard i know and personally i would wait to stop testing after your period is a week late because i did not get a positive with this preg untill i was ten days late and i tested every day!!! let me know what happens and we can talk agian then..good luck! arianna

 

thanks - November 11

thank you for bein so sweet about answering my question most girls on here are so rude i am 20 and i know its stupid for me to have let my boyfriend come in me but he said he wanted to get my pregnant because he loves me but i dont think i am pregnanti just have a feelings im not but i will write back wheni find out for sure

 

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