Bleeding Unsure Respond Asap Thanx

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why - March 9

okay so me and my boyfriend have been tryin my last period was on feb 6th we had unprotected s_x almost 3 days out of every week or more sumtimes 2 3 times a day. yesterday we were having s_x and afterwards i began to bleed a little bit this morning march 9th it got a lil heavier... is this my period or implantation bleeding or what??? thanx

 

Nerdy_Girl_10242006 - March 9

how old are you?

 

why - March 9

what does that have to do with my question?

 

Nerdy_Girl_10242006 - March 9

Because if you are younger then I can answer better then if you were older

 

why - March 9

o ic i jus thought ud give me c___p about being 15 almost 16 sorry

 

Nerdy_Girl_10242006 - March 9

Well I would because its irresponsible, but instead I will tell you that implantation bleeding is usally light bleeding and doesn't last longer then a day. It can be very heavy but still don't last longer then a day.

 

why - March 9

so you think its my period????

 

Nerdy_Girl_10242006 - March 9

Yeah, or could be something to the effect of a UTI or a yeast infection. But can I ask why you wanna have a baby? I'm 18 and I think I am to young and I must mention I got pregnant using protection

 

why - March 9

why would i bleed though??why wouldn't i get pregnant?? just wondering? I want to raise someone devote my life to them watch someone grow sacrifce everything for one soul i wanna hold something in my arms and know i created it thats why i want one...wellur lucky!

 

Nerdy_Girl_10242006 - March 9

Lucky? I am happy yes, but I wanted to do so much, travel with my husband and g out and do things. Start a career and settle down and wait til I was older, now I can yes do that but only a little bit. Raising a baby costs so much, not to mention you have to give up your life, your friends and everything you wanna do. You also have to wake up all hours of the night. Can I suggest that you find someone who will let you babysit for the night and see if that is something you really want. If you can't then just remember that a baby is a living person and they do grow up quicker then you think and the terrible twos is the hardest part, plus t he potty training and the whole fit throwing because they want a candy. But then you will be 19 and it will be hard for you to get a job if you drop outta school. Your boyfriend I will a__sume is young and I just wanna know why? You have a chance to be someone and do something. A baby can wait until you are older and in a more mature relationship. And you shouldn't get pregnant, you will hear some moms on here saying how they wish they would have waited or that if they would have known they wouldn't have even had s_x. Its hard work being a Mom and it is literally NEVER ENDING, this child will rely on you until the day you die. and implantation is VERY uncommon. and all these things I mentioned cause you to bleed. A baby isn't a doll, when they are sick it is so hard, being tired and having to stay up with them all night crying its so hard...they are fun I won't lie, but its harder then you think especially at your age because you have to rely on other people. Your not even old enough to get a license yet and you want a baby?

 

why - March 9

yes i do i have considered all of these things... and yes i ahve babysitted my friend just had a baby in novemeber he's here when she spends the nite i love wen he comes over.. well i think ur very lucky adn blessed and if u r pregnant it was meant to be...jus very depressing for me. but oh well maybe next month ;(

 

Nerdy_Girl_10242006 - March 9

Please don't do this, you are going to end up telling yourself you should have waited. I know I should have, well of course mine caught me by suprise because I miscarried twins in November 06 and found out in December 06 I was pregnant. Its hard on me because I work full time and I'm constantly tired, I hate being and constantly feeling nausea and the headaches and back pain. It takes a toll on your body and it isn't fun. I'm 14 weeks and its killing me right now. I can't walk for a long period of time because it hurts my legs. I am showing very well and all the weight is straining my legs, sad thing is I have lost weight and not gained it. But its hard, if you decide you want too, I hope you realize that this is something YOU want, and how would you feel if you 15 year old daughter had a baby? I know I would hate it if she got pregnant at my age.

 

Nerdy_Girl_10242006 - March 9

and you said if i am pregnant it was meant to be, maybe this is your sign that its not your time...your body and god is telling you that its not the right time for you

 

why - March 9

we all have dreams tho right.... idk...its just sad

 

Nerdy_Girl_10242006 - March 9

whats sad

 

why - March 9

yes i kno if my fifteen year old got pregnant i wud handle it...

 

Nerdy_Girl_10242006 - March 9

you would think different after you had her

 

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