Boys Point Of View How Do I Tell My Pops

14 Replies
jimmy - July 9

i never use a condem cause she said she was on the pill. then, 1 day, she juss up and told me she was pregnant. my pops is gonna kill me when he finds out. he never knew i was having s_x in the first place. i know that most girls think all guys are the same. we're not.i want to be in my baby's life, i just don't know how. im not ready to be a father, but i have to be one, like it or not. i juss need to know how to tell my pops i got a girl pregnant. im 14.

 

mikey - June 23

just tell him straight up. that's what i did.

 

jennifer_17 - June 23

ok just tell him. my boyfriend is 15. i thought i was pregnant but fortunatly i wasn't but he told his mom that i thought i was. and to our surprise she was ok, scared but ok with it. he just told her he wanted to be in the baby's life and she was completely fine maybe you are just thinking the worst maybe your dad wont be as mad as you think just tell him and talk to him in a respectful yet serious manner.don't always think the worse.

 

Shelly - June 23

Mikey and Jennifer are right. Your pop will probably be shocked. He will also be dissapointed. He may blame himeslf for not giving you the guidence you needed. Most parents are always ready to help their kids with anything they get themselves into. Just let him know you need his help. Then tell him what has happened. Keep in mind for the future that a condom doesn't just protect against pregnancy, but s_xually transmitted diseases too. Even if the pill is involved, it's always a good idea to use a condom. What if she forgot to take one of her pills? It happens a lot.

 

james - June 29

i agree with mikey and jennifer. just tell him.

 

Zoe - June 30

UNLUCKY!!!

 

Meagan - June 30

Tell your dad and stop having s_x at such a young age.

 

kay - July 2

Meagan, he asked about his pops and not your opinion on when to have s_x. He's already in enough pressure to tell his dad and probably already learned his lesson.

 

Meagan - July 2

Kay, please don't speak to me about your opinion. I've seen the stuff you put on here, and It's alot worse then what I told him, so please back off.

 

KAY - July 2

WHAT THE HACK! MEAGAN, I SWEAR I DID NOT WRITE THAT. I WASNT EVEN HERE AT THAT TIME. THAT'S HIS OPINION.DONT YOU THINK THAT BY THE WAY I TELL EVERYONE ELSE NOT TO HAVE s_x THAT I WOULD AGREE WITH YOU? THINK.

 

KAY - July 2

besides, i went to bed at like, 10:30 because i was sick.

 

Meagan - July 2

Kay, I wasn't trying to upset you or anything, I just responded to what was wrote. How was I supposed to know it wasn't you? Everything is fine. I just responded to what was wrote. God bless.

 

kay - July 2

meagan, i did not write that. think. in all of my other messages, i have said wit, and stuff like that. why would i snap at anyone for saying someone is too young to have s_x when i've been saying the same thing? besides, i went to bed at like, 10:30 last night because i had a headache.

 

Lilly - July 6

Yes your dad will flip like pancakes at IHOP. But it's done, right? Can you change it? Only an abortion. But if you want to be this baby's dad, good for you. Yes it's going to be hella work. But it's all worth it. Show responsibilty by delivering news paper but you are only 14,I thing you may be too young yet.Stand up to your dad,he'll realize that at least you have enough b___s to tell him this. Good luck

 

jacy - July 9

the best thing you can do is tell him as soon as possible and just get it over with.

 

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