Common Sense

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Meagan18 - March 14

I've been looking through the post. I see where the regulars on here are coming from when ya'll post some of the things ya'll do lol. My favorites are when they say they don't want a baby, can't support the baby, or wasn't trying to have a baby, but yet they were constantly having unprotected s_x. If you really really don't want to get pregnant then wouldn't you use some kind of protection? I just don't get it I guess. Well, thought I'd give my 2 cents. :)

 

Nerdy_Girl_10242006 - March 14

No, they are stupid and don't realize that sperm is what causes babies...or my fav. they can't afford condoms so they go and get caught up in the moment which makes me laugh because how in the hell can they afford a baby. But its the selfishness in it all that makes them appear the way they do. And common sense for half of them don't exist because that would require having a brain and as we can see not to many of them have one.

 

Nerdy_Girl_10242006 - March 14

And when I say sperm, I meant a sperm and an egg* had to correct myself

 

Meagan18 - March 14

ha ha - true. especially about the buying condoms. if you honestly can't spend a few bucks on comdoms then how in the hell are you going to raise and support another human being?!

 

Lady Marmalade - March 14

make me laugh when they say "i had unprotected s_x we did this that the other" then go on to say "im scared to death im pregnant".. ?? Well what did you expect you blithering imbecile! Strawberries?

 

Meagan18 - March 14

don't they pay attention is s_x ed cla__s? don't they start that when they're like 12 or 13 or something?

 

mspregnant 17 - March 14

First of all Meg (can i call you meg?) didn't nobody ask for your two cents all these girls have a situation in here and we came together to get emotional help not lectured by you. Who are you any way somebodys mom? get some business MEG!!!!!!!!!!!! and feel free to write me back. Can't wait to see what you have to say this time!

 

Nerdy_Girl_10242006 - March 14

Well I will be honest and straight forward with you, you are pregnant and you want to tell Meghan something about she has no business...girls come on here to get advice...advice works both ways good or bad, its an open opinion. And I find it funny how all these people come in here (me at one time) state an opinion and go against it...Nobody asked for your two cents either but you gave it, doesn't that mean she has just as much of a right as you do. You made a mistake by getting pregnant, I have no clue what your decision is anymore but you wanted to go with an abortion. I was nice to you in that post but of all people I will be completely honest with you. ITS YOUR FAULT YOU GOT PREGNANT NOT THE BABIES AND YET YOU HAD THE THOUGHT TO TERMINATE YOUR PREGNANCY AND KILL AND INNOCENT CHILD. when people here want to get pregnant we get retarded teenagers who can't face up and go the easy way out. I don't and I never will agree with abortion, and I don't care who fights with me on this I'm going to stick to it. But you of all people go out and have s_x and consider an abortion and to me that in every single way makes you one who don't have common sense. How can you come in here and talk to her about this and be so selfish in your own d__n life to get past the fact that abortion isn't going to change anything. Yeah you are 17 and maybe you wanna keep this baby now, which you should...if you weren't ready for a kid then keep your d__n legs closed and quit b___hing and complaining because I for one consider you one of the most heartless people. She can't SAY something about people like you who have no common sense and makes her look bad, but you can run in here saying that its ok to KILL a baby...now tell me, who is the one in the wrong? Who has a right to say this? I'm pretty sure she has more of a right then you do. Maybe you think she is heartless and rude, but I think you have to mind your own business if you can actually even consider abortion, which is the RUDEST, MOST DISGUSTING, HEARTLESS, CARELESS act I have ever seen...think twice before you turn the finger on someone else

 

Nerdy_Girl_10242006 - March 14

And yes I was rude about what I said and if you or anyone feel I was rude then its cool with me. I'm not about to please anyone on the internet anyways and I don't think anyone should have to please other people other then themselves and or the teens who actually need it

 

Meagan18 - March 14

mspregnant - i'm not here to lecture anybody. i just gave an opinion. feel free to not like it :)

 

Meagan18 - March 14

Nerdy girl - I agree with you. I'm not here to please anyone either. there's a difference between wanting advice and just using common sense. I've been on here for advice, have given advice, and have heard other peoples thoughts and opinions. that's just the way it goes.

 

moescrilla - March 14

well Meagan, I'm on your side --- and mspregnant, its not like she went into someone elses topic and posted that -- she made her own, if you dont like it, fine. like nerdy_girl said no one asked for you two cents either and yet you gave it. So --obviously everyone can say what they want, just doesnt mean everyone is going to like it. ANYWAY -my fav one is my boyfriend and I humped with our clothes on, could I be pregnant??? HAHA....some of these silly questions really make my day sometimes though. You always need to laugh every now and then :)

 

ChattyKathy - March 14

These girls need advice because in some cases they lack the education to have what you would call "common sense". This is a place to educate, not to share your personal opinions.

 

moescrilla - March 14

true - but ofcourse everyone has an opinion and usually shares it. These girls also need to be educated on birth control, some people just do it a little more bluntly than others.

 

Meagan18 - March 14

ChattyKathy - i do agree with what you're saying. this is a place for advice, but some stuff is just ridiculous. things like "we had unprotected s_x everyday, even 2-3 times a day for 3 weeks. could i be pregnant?" I mean come on! or like the example moescrila gave - dry humping and pregnant? some stuff is just WAY to ridiculous. <br><br> anyways -thanks moescrilla. :)

 

moescrilla - March 14

I understand completely too with you kathy, sometimes its easy for us though to get frustrated, especially when its such a dumb question. But -- obviously they dont know, or they wouldnt ask. Allot of the time though they're fake, just trying to see what people will say. But if you know what causes pregnancy, then why would you ask if you could be pregnant when you've had unproteced s_x frequently? I understand when people want to know when there most fertal days are, but just to ask if they could be pregnant by having unprotected s_x is a little stupid. But I am trying for the most part now to be nice to people with some off the wall dumb questions, just like I said every now and then....it gets a little too stupid.

 

ChattyKathy - March 14

Sorry, Meagan. I forgot to clarify my comment was directed more towards NerdyGirl. Yes, I definitely agree with both of your statements as well. Its a shame, but really, these girls have no one else to talk to. The schools aren't teaching them, the parents aren't teaching them, they might be embara__sed to ask friends, and friends usually give false information anyway. It gets tedious after a while to answer the "these are your most fertile days, theres always a chance, use protecton" on and on and on, but I just try to remember that at some point in time I was just as uneducated as they were. It took effort to learn about my body and this might be how they are doing just that. I hope so, anyway, that they are at least TRYING to become educated. It takes much less effort to ignore someones post than it does to yell at them for being stupid. Besides, girls, mommies-to-be dont need the extra stress!

 

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