CONCERNED MOM

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CONCERNED MOM - April 14

DEFIENT DAUGHTER COULD POSSIBLY BE PREGNANT. BOUGHT HOME PREG TEST 4 HER AND I THINK SHE PUT IT UNDER THE FAUCET. DOES ANYONE KNOW HOW PLAIN WATER COULD AFFECT A PREG TEST?

 

marie - April 14

you need to take her to a doctor and get a blood test, that way you know for shoure. and if she knows she's not pregnant she will not have any problem takeing it. good luck. I hope every thing works out the way you want it to.

 

CONCERNED MOM - April 14

TOOK HER TO THE DOCTOR, SHE REFUSED THE REG PREG TEST. EVEN THOUGH HE SAID HE WAS CHECKING HER FOR UTI. THANKS FOR THE CONCERN.

 

Audrey - April 15

Mom- Sit down with your daughter and ask her why she is being so difficult. If she believes she is pregnant she will be scared and might not want to tell you for fear of your wrath. Or she knows she is pregnant and wants to keep it, but can't or won't say anything. Either way, let her know that you might get angry but will be supportive whatever happens. Forcing her to take tests won't help the situation. Good luck.

 

Amanda - April 16

If she is pregnant there is not much you can do about it now. what i would suggest is talk to her and let her know that everything will be alright play on her weak side and it will come out

 

Lily - April 16

I agree with Amanda...There isn't a lot you can do if she's already pregnant. Sit down and talk with your daughter about all the changes her body will undergo, talk to her about her school work, ask her what decision she would like to make about her schooling after the baby. Be supportive but play her scared side...Good Luck Concerned Mom.

 

Lisa - April 16

What made you suspicious that she may be pregnant in the first place? How old is she? Does she have a boyfriend?

 

katie - April 17

i guess she is pregnant then if she wont do any of the tests...the best thing u can to is sit her down and talk to her and tell her u will b there to supposrt her and stuff she will tell u eventually but gd luck xxx katie

 

Nanna Ronni - April 17

MOM, How old is your daughter? I can understand how worried you might be feeling at the moment, and there must be a thousand thoughts going through your mind, but I wonder why you have cla__sed her as defiant, is this because of the way she is managing the currrent situation or is this an ongoing problem between you and her. I know pregnancy is a big issue, but I wonder if you focusesed on the relationship between you and your daughter, whether this might help to get some talking going between you and her. Would it help to take her out shopping on her own and have luch together and try and get some dialogue going, then maybe you could find out what is going on in her life and what her worries are, you might find that she will be more willing to open up and be honest if she feels you care about her and are not going to judge her. She possibly is very scared and so needs her mom to love her just as much as you are possibly scared, maybe telling her how you feel will help her to see that you are too going through a roller coaster of emotions. I hope this helps and good luck with the future.

 

Shocked - April 17

Sharon l so hope you havnt got a child and if you have I sincerely hope you learn how to relate to it in a far better manner than what you have done on that post. I have not read anything so god insensitively written in a long time.

 

b - April 18

bump

 

Britt - April 19

She might possibly be scared because maybe you are doing some stuff that you aren't telling us, like being pushy and angry with her. Although that is understandable, i think you need to sit her down and let her know that whatever happens, you will support her, so she feels more comfortable about finding out. She needs a safe environment, give her one.

 

concerned mom - April 23

thank you for those of you who have showed your concern. and as for sharon, this might come as a shock for you but in this day and age children have more rights than the adults do. useing violence to find out my answers is not exactly going to get me closer with my child. as for my daughter she is doing well and is not pregnant, but finding out that my thirteen yr old was naked in bed with a boy is not exactly my idea of good news either. again thank you all for your concern.

 

Tiahna - April 23

If you have these suspicions your subconcious is telling you that your relationship with your daughter isn't a good one. Talk to your daughter! Honesty is this key! Be open minded- dont yell at her and make her feel worse, if she is pregnant DONT focus on what she has done wrong, focus on what you can do to help her.

 

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