Confused

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Jules - March 12

My boyfriend and I have s_x with a condom everytime we have s_x.. we are very careful and safe and he makes sure he pulls out before he c_ms even when he has a condom on.. which is everytime, so there is no chance of seman getting in my va___a.. and when he c_ms there usually isnt a lot .. i just need to make sure theres not way i have to be worried or anything, because I do get paranoid sometimes just because thats the type of person i am.. any advice??

 

short chick - March 15

Hey Jules, at least you're being careful! The only surefire way to avoid all pregnancy and std scares is to not have s_x. That's pretty obvious. If you are aware of the risk of pregnancy (condoms are roughly 97% effective) and have discussed this with your partner you will be fine. Him pulling out prior to ejaculation reduces you risk again (don't know by how much) just make sure he is holding the condom firmly round the base when he does this so it doesn't risk falling off as he pulls out. I know it seems a small risk but trust me, it happened to me a few years ago- i got one hell of a fright! So, anyway, I'm pretty paranoid about pretty much everything too so I thought you'd be happy to see a reply on your post! Good luck, I really don't think you have anything to be worried about. Just keep doing it like you describe and if you wanna protect yourself even further maybe consider the pill or an extra spermicidal lube. Smiles xxx

 

Grandpa Viv - March 15

Good answer, chick! Jules, if you go with condom + foam/film, you might also stay away from your fertile window Days 8-16 of a 28 day cycle.

 

britt - March 15

yes u r being very and there is no way u r pregnant

 

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