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anonymous - February 22

ok here it goes i think i might be pregnant... my last period was january 9 2005 and ended january 16 i had s_x after my period unprotected( i know my mistake) i had s_x around my ovution time i had s_x like on and off around dat week..weel turns out im waiting for my peiord like i was soppuse to get it like around the ninth of feb.? but i didnt its now the 22 of febuary the symtooms i been getting lower back pain sore breats feeling very hungry all the time headache peeing alot feeling dizzy gettin naseaus symtoms like that but no morening sickness at all just naseus (sp) i wud like to know if i might be pregant i havent old my boyfreind cause i have been going through scrares throught the time i started having s_x with was in nov. and everytime i think im pregnant ium really not i was very upset the lat time i find out i thought i was and i took a hpt and it came out neg. my face has also been kinda oily and pimply i dont have money for a preg test and im so scared of the outcome cause my parents are puerto rican and they already threatened me saying if i ever do anything bad like s_x they will press charges against my boyfreind they love him and we been together for 3 yrs im 17 yrs old. he told me once before if i get pregnant h__l be there for me!! i love him os much so if i am i just am scared not for me but of him i wudnt want anything bad to happen he has a steady job gets paid weel and his family has been very soppurtive and they love me and once i thought i was pregnant and his mom was happy she wasnt even disapointed his family wants me to marry him PLZ HELP p.S [email protected]

 

me - February 22

^^by the way i told my best freind and she has helped me before but i had to tell her i told her not to tell anyone and she has been sopurtive and he parents otld me if my rent kick me out dat i cud live with them!? im so scared!!!^^^^ me

 

Audrey - February 22

From the symptoms you describe, I'd say that you are pregnant. It's good that you have the support of your boyfriend and his family. Unfortunately your parents might be able to press charges depending on where you live, each state in the U.S. has a different age of consent, most are 16 but some are 17 or 18. I wish you the best of luck.

 

me - February 22

thank you audrey i live in ma__s and hes 19 idk what the law is so if i was pregnant i dont know what to do about it im so scared it aiint even funny im reading around in the forums and ppl can be extremly rude!! :( im like so emotional i just hope dat if i am my parents wont be dumb and press charges as the father he does have rights even tho im a minor my parents love him tho i can see anybody hurting him

 

Grandpa Viv - February 22

You sound pregnant enough that you should start taking prenatal vitamins until you are sure what is going on. There's a good chance of getting a positive on a home pregnancy test by now. You should try one soon. I don't think much of parents who use scare tactics in place of birth control information. The letter of Ma__s law could be trouble for your bf (he took your virginity before age 18) but it sounds as though few cases are brought after age 16.

 

chris - February 22

It sounds as though you are pregnant, but don't panick too much. You might be able to go and live with his parents. Are you old enough to get married? Do your parents have to sign for you? Well, if you are pregnant, you might want to talk to your boyfriend about getting married right away. Your parent's would probably be ok with that since in there minds you would be righting a "wrong". Do you think that would work? Whatever happens, there are good people in this world ready to help you, God will make sure of that. Please let me know what happens....... [email protected]

 

me - February 22

how do i get prenatal vitamins withough letting a doc or parent knowing? is there like a over the counter vitamin i can take might sound dumb but im extremyl knew at this!!! well update-me and my boyfreind talked and i finally told him waas really going on he told me to go buy a test and do it at his house but its very complicating seeing as my mother went to puerto rico and she has ppl watching me (we had trouble in the past wth me going to his house withought permission) we resolved it but she wants me to be safe u know usual tipical mother

 

Audrey - February 22

There are over-the-counter vitamins that you can buy. The best ones to take should contain folic acid because that is essential for your child to develop properly. You also need to be more careful about what you eat. A good site to look at for info is http://www.beryl.net/HTL/Pregnancy/23207.htm

 

me - February 22

thank u once again audrey its ppl loike u that give me hope

 

maya - February 22

maybe u should move in with your boyfriend and let ur parents come to their senses

 

me - February 22

i wanna thankl everyone for there help u guys have been very helpful but i still feal unsure im still scared i even told my boyfreind today i dont wanna take it casue im scared its gonna be pos. im thinking aboutt hat but i was thinking about tellng them like this mom dad sit down we need ot tlak blah blah i telle them and then ill tell them that im gonna get outta there ahir for a couple days live at either my bestfreind house or hirs for a couple of days... until they chilll out cause they can be the kinda of aprents whot ake it the wrong way and hit me..so ill dod at or live with my boyfriend but talk to them frist i just wanna tell them and take off for a little while casue theres onna be hell in my house wen dey find out if i aim update im getting the money from my boyfreind in like 20 and im gonna pick it up from my freinds house tomomrw get the test and take it and wait to see wat haps. if its pos ill deal with if its pos. ill deal with it if iits neg ill deal with it better by trying to get on like bc or something!

 

chris - February 22

I gave you my e-mail before [email protected] I am 22 and have a one year old, but I thought that maybe I could be some support along the way. You know any questions about the unknown and stuff. Take care

 

me - February 22

ya i saw u emial me i emailed u back c

 

maria - February 22

a friend of mine couldn't take the prescribed prenatals her doctor gave her cause they made her really sick, so he told her to take flintstone vitamins (yeah, the kid ones) because they were the best

 

me - February 22

does it really work?? how about centrum?

 

TO ME(ANONYMOUS) - February 23

HI, IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE HAVING A HARD TIME. FIRST, GO TO WALGREENS AND BUY SOME PRENATAL VITAMINS. THE VITAMINS SHOULD BE UNDER $10.00. TAKE THE PREGNANCY TEST, SWEETIE. THE PREGNANCY IS NOT GOING TO GO AWAY. YOU SAID YOU ARE 17, WHEN WILL YOU TURN 18? ONCE YOU TURN 18, THERE IS NOTHING YOUR PARENTS CAN DO TO YOUR BOYFRIEND. IT WOULD BE BEST TO MOVE IN WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND, IF YOUR PARENTS IS GOING TO HIT YOU. THERE IS GOV.PROGRAMS THAT CAN HELP YOU UNTIL YOU GET ON YOUR FEET. DO YOU HAVE A SCHOOL IN MASS. FOR PREGNANT TEENS? I HAVE ONE IN WI.(LADY PITTS) STAY IN SCHOOL,SO YOU CAN GIVE YOUR BABY THE BEST POSSIBLE FUTURE. OH, I ALMOST FORGOT, TRY PLANNED PARENTHOOD FOR HELP TOO. I WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOU. KEEP IN TOUCH

 

me - February 23

thank you!! very much i have $20. das all i cud pull out right now so i going to be the pregnancy test and im gonna try and buy the vitamins to !! yes im still in school and i just turned 17 in jan. i will 18 in january and my parents love me im just scared on how they are gonna react im old enough but i think there gonna hit me to teach a lesson if they do! in Puerto Rico its ok if u hit ur kids but if it turns into child abuse u have to report it i have never been abused i get hit once in awhile wen i do something wrong!

 

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