Desperate And Scared

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charly - March 3

hi, im only 13, but i really want a baby, im not like one of those people who say it for the 'experiance' but its because i have an older sister, but she is out all the time, and ive always wanted a baby. my best friend boy mate, said he would like to be the father, but im scared that he might leave me. what will my mum and dad think? ive asked them to have another baby, but they keep saying no, im desperete!

 

Grandpa Viv - March 3

Charly, it sounds like you're lonely for company with your sister gone all the time and your parents too busy to pay attention to you. Having a baby at your age is not the solution. Your parents have made it lain they don't want another baby in the house, and that applies to a baby of yours too. How about asking if they would do the foster parent thing for another kid your age. Right now you should be focusing on getting a good education, followed by a good job, and a good man and finally a good marriage. Set your eyes on the age of 26 for getting everything lined up to where a baby will be something you can look after the way babies need.

 

Julia - March 3

Charly, you need to slow down a bit and think of your futur. I understand your lonley, but having a baby and being single is really a much lonlier life. Because it seems your friend leave you to go have fun, your man has done gone and your left to take care of a baby. Maybe you should consider baby sitting. Then you could be with kids and not have to be responsible for raising them just yet. Then later on in life you can think of having your own kids and you will then have some experiance of what taking care of them is like. Good Luck and think before acting!!

 

becca - March 4

wait till your older

 

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