Do I Tell Him Or Not

10 Replies
ashley - July 21

on the last day of school, we had a party. everyone was going to be there. me and my best friend went . i was pretty excited because i had finally finished the 10th grade.after the party, i was supposed to go to his house to sleep. our parents thought nothing of it because we had been sleeping at each others house for years. our parents have been best friends since college, so we had known each other since we were babies. well, anyway, we went to the party had a few beers, and went to his house around 11:30 or 12 midnight. since the guest room i sleep in doesnt have a tv, i got in my nightclothes, an oversized shirt, and went to his room to watch some tv with him. big mistake. next thing i knew, i was having s_x with him. we couldnt look at each other that morning. well, a few days ago, i went to get a pregnancy test. not because i thought i was pregnant, but because i was paranoyed and there was a slight chance. we never thought of using protection. the test turned out posotive. if i tell him the baby is his, it might ruin our friendship. if i act like its someone else's, which it isn't, i know that he'll stand by me, and we'll stay friends, although i look just like my dad, and so does my mom.i have no idea what im supposed to do, and i would never forgive myself if i had an abortion.

 

minnie - July 2

i think you should tell him its his. i mean, if the baby looks like him, dont you think he'd know?

 

V1415A - July 2

I AGREE WITH MINNIE...ASHLEY, YOU SHOULD TELL HIM..DON'T HAVE AN ABORTION..THATS NOT RIGHT..THAT POOR CHILD HAS NO CLUE AND YOU SHOULD TAKE HIS/HER LIFE. TALK WITH HIM. IF HE WAS RESPONSIBLE FOR HAVING s_x WITH YOU THEN HE SHOULD BE RESPONSIBLE ABOUT THAT CONSEQUENCES. I DON'T THINK THAT IT WILL RUIN YOUR FRIENDSHIP AND I HOPE IT DOESN'T. GIRL, GOOD LUCK AND TELL HIM.

 

v1415A - July 2

I MEANT TO SAY YOU SHOULDN'T TAKE HIS/HER LIFE.

 

amyrah - July 2

tell himthe baby's his. if he learns the truth, he'll never forgive you. i dont think.

 

Lilly - July 6

If you don't want an abortion don't do it for anybody. Most guy's convince the chick's so they can get their sorry buts out of paying child support. Tell your parents and then tell him. If he denies it no biggie, there is something called DNA testing.But don't say it's someone elses just to keep the friendship. The way I see it is that he was man enough to have s_x with you he should be man enough to be by your side. It will more than likely scare his b___t off and maybe not even talk to you for a few days, but give him the space, it's shocking,especially since you two are young.

 

sasha - July 6

I think you should tell him because as the father of that baby he has a right to knowand only keeping it from him will hurt you in the long run.

 

jacy - July 9

do what you think is right. it would be better if you told him it was his, but we dont really know how close you and hm are.

 

kay - July 15

i already posted this, but i think that you should tell him the truth

 

steph - July 17

okay well both of your parents should not even try to be surprised when you tell them because they set it all up.and come-on teenagers are curious.i think you should tell him.it's his as-well as your responsibility.don't even let him get of easy just because your scared of losing his friendship.either way you will still have him in your life because you're both having a baby together,so you'll have to have some kind of relationship regardless if you break-up or not.

 

LilMamma - July 21

The best thing you can do is tell the truth. You'll never know how he'll react for sure untill you tell him, and it would be best for the baby.

 

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