Don T Want To Hurt Him

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Britt-Britt - February 20

I don't want to hurt my baby's dad, but he doesn't really want the baby and I'm kind of wondering if it would be better if I left him and did it all on my own....is anyone in the same boat?

 

hailey07 - February 20

First of all it takes two people to make a baby. Just because he doesn;t thinkt hat he wants a child doesn't mean that you can let him off the hook. If you are concerned for your safety or your child's safety with him, then yes you should look into your options. However if this isn;t the case it is not fair on you to have to do this alone. You need to consider your age, income, if your parents would help raise the baby, and just really come to terms with single parenthood. All in all I don;t think you should just let him off the hook because he doesn't want the baby, he put himself into this situation when he had s_x for you and he should take responsibility for his actions.

 

hailey07 - February 20

PS just noticed the typos, hope that made sense. Good luck!

 

babii_boo91 - February 20

i say leave him hunn

 

NuMama - February 21

I understand, im 18 and at first my man didnt want to keep the baby he was scared and we're young but i knew i wanted my baby so i kept him (im 7 mon now) and so far its great he was just a lil scared at first but now he's more excied than me.

 

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