Help Me Decide

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confused and scared - November 1

my boyfriend and i were fooling around and we had dry s_x ( basically he had boxers on and i didnt have anything on, i was on top of him) could his sperm have leaked through the boxers and gotten me pregnant? also i heard that sperm dies as soon as it hits the air, does that help me at all?

 

E - November 1

NO and NO. Sperm cannot swim through cotton. Don't believe girls who claim to have gotten pregnant that way. They don't want to admit to the truth. If his p___s touched your v____a through the side of the boxers, that is a different story. Sperm lives for up to 4 hours outside of the v____a in prime conditions (warmth and moisture).

 

confused and scared - November 1

im not sure if his p___s might have slipped through the side of his boxers. we also had s_x afterwards and he used a condom, but i couldnt tell when he ejaculated so i kept going, then when i asked him he said he finised a while ago. could that get me pregnant?

 

E - November 1

Having s_x after a man ejaculates into the condom can cause it to tear and leak, so yes, that can get you pregnant.

 

confused and scared - November 1

he said it didnt tear, but you are right it might have leaked. im supposed to get my period in a week, but i already have bloating and mood swings. does that mean anything?

 

E - November 1

It means you likely are getting your period, as those are signs. You cannot always see the tear as it could be a tiny pinhole. Still, it is unlikely that you are pregnant. Please see my link for Planned Parenthood at the bottom, if you live in the US. You may want to consider the pill.

 

confused and scared - November 1

thank you so much E youve really helped me "cill out" cuz i was so worried, but i wont stop worrying till i get my period. the funny thing is that this will be the first time i am happy to get my period

 

E - November 1

I think you will be fine, but if not, come back and let us know. Please call PP for some free birth control. Also, never ever continue to have s_x once the condom has s____n in it. Good luck:)

 

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