HELP ME PLEASE

7 Replies
Stephanie - July 12

I don't know what to do. I just turned 18 and have now missed 2 periods. I am in love with a guy and he thinks he is the only one I've been with. Which is true accept for ONE TIME when he was with another girl (we dated for a year and a half then he dated another girl now he can't decide between me and her.) I don't know if I should keep the baby or not, and if I do should I tell him it's his (i'm sure he'll assume.) I have no idea what to do. I feel like I can't tell my mom either because she knew I missed my first period and she asked if there was any way I could be pregnant and I told her there was no way. Please help me I need someone to help with this whole situation.

 

SaRaH - July 8

If he cant decide who he wants to be with thats his problem! If u r pregnant u need to take care of urself and the baby! I was 18 when i had my son and it was the BEST thing that ever happened to me! U will not have a care in the world except that u try the best u can 4 ur kid!! good luck!

 

Stephanie Again - July 8

I guess what I'm scared about is that he can't decide now...but if I tell him I know he'll choose me. I don't want that to be the only reason he wants to be with me.

 

SaRaH - July 8

How are u so certain that he will choose u? There is not a doubt that u might run him off by telling him> Ok let me just kinda explain my cituation when i was in ur shoes!! he we go!! i got pregnant from this guy i was with for 2 yrs. we broke up and he started to see some one else. He came over and we "ya know" and i got pregnant. To make a long story short i told him and we got back together, then he started going out and leaving me home and doing his own thing. SO if he is willing to be with u and u ONLY and not play between yall then maybe u should come forward and tell him and see where things go from there!!! :)

 

Stephanie - July 9

Yea, I know he would want to be part of the babys life that is just how he is...his brother's fiance had a baby with someone else and the guy was never part of the babys life and all he does is talk about how stupid that is and how he could never do that to his kid. But the scary thing is the one time I messed around with another guy (we didn't have s_x but we were close like him sitting right on the outside of me) and I guess I'm afraid its his or something. That guy has a girlfriend he has been dating for like 2 years (which I didn't know about at the time) so if it is his then he would want nothing to do with this baby. I just don't konw what to do. Or who to talk to. I've spent the past few days trying to find a forum like this that I could turn to for advise. I want to tell my mom but I don't know how. She is one of those people who will tell me she is so disappointed in me and i embara__s the family and make them look like bad parents because of me not being responsible and just being stupid. Plus like I said I guess I don't want him to choose me just for that. I know it would never last if that's the case. I want him to love me and want to be with me...not just want to be with the baby. Then there is another twist...I hold a t_tle and in order to hold that t_tle I can't be pregnant or have a kid so I don't know. I feel like the best option is an abortion but I know I could NEVER EVER LIVE WITH MYSELF IF I DID THAT! So I can't do it and won't do it I just need help getting through all of this!

 

Stephanie - July 10

I think I lost the baby...I took a pregnancy test several days ago and it was posative...I was ready to tell him all about it. Then today I have been bleading really heavy...I think I lost the baby. I'm not sure but I'm honsestly really sad. I know things would have been hard...but it's sad to know what I lost. Sarah...thank you sooo much for talking...you will never know how much all of that meant and helped! Thanks again!

 

SaRaH - July 12

Stephanie I hope that everything works out 4 u!! GOD BLESS U AND remember that everything happens for a reason!! I am here if u need to talk!! :)

 

E - November 8

Bump. Everyone, help me with the bumps please.

 

ADD A COMMENT:


You must log in to reply.

Are you New to the forum? Sign Up Here! Already a member? Please login below.

Forgot your password?
Need Help?
New to the forum?

Sign Up Here!


Already a member?
Please login below.





Forgot your password?
Need Help?