How To Tell Parents

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bbbbbbbb - July 12

i'm 16 and i think i'm pregnant. i want to tell my parents, but the thing is that it was a hook up. i'm scared of how they'll take it and what they'll do. and if i am pregnant, i don't want to have the baby. 

 

Grandpa Viv - July 12

bb, you need help, for sure. What makes you think you are pregnant? Are you late and with early pregnancy signs? Run a home pregnancy test and find out for sure. 

If you get a positive the smart thing to do would be to tell your mum. The circumstances might be embarrassing but at this stage you will have learned your lesson.  Your mum will help in the decision making process. 

 

bbbbbbbb - July 12

thank you for the reply. i don't have regular periods, my last period was in march. the only symptom i've had is i feel sorta nauseous, but perhaps its just worry. i've been feeling like this for the past week, but no other symptoms. 

 

Grandpa Viv - July 12

One guess would be you had sex and ovulated a couple of weeks ago. Are you unusually tired, peeing more often, emotional, changed appetite and more? Run that test. Maybe you have nothing to worry about. 

 

bbbbbbbb - July 13

nothing of that sorts, but i havent been able to eat really. how would i be able to tell if i am pregnant if i don't have regular periods? besides taking a pregnancy test. 

 

Grandpa Viv - July 13

Most women have enough early pregnancy signs that there is little doubt. A few do not. A home pregnancy test is the only way to be sure. What kind of sexual exposure did you have, and how long ago?

 

Grandpa Viv - July 13

Ok, I read your first post. You talk about weird cramps, nausea and appetite. What is odd is that the signs started right after sex and not at implantation time days later. Also this was your sexual debut which can throw your hormones into a frenzy. You have enough signs to cause some concern, but for some reason I think sexual debut is the problem. Level with your mom. She will give you some good advice and breathe a sigh of relief that she is not a grandma too soon. 

 

Grandpa Viv - July 13

For what it's worth, note that women are most sexually receptive with high sex drive at ovulation time. This is what gets some girls pregnant the first time they have sex. 

 

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