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listy - February 13

I am going to have a baby....I don't want to tell any one in my family....who should I tell...How should I tell my boyfriend.....

 

Rhonda - February 13

Hi Honey, I'm sorry for asking personal questions that you most probably don't want to answer but why don't you want to tell anyone in you family, you need support right now?

 

hey - February 13

i am afraid

 

Rhonda - February 13

I'm a__suming listy is hey. If so hi sweety, why are you afraid?

 

listy - February 13

Cuz my parents have alot of hopes for me and I have ALOT of dreams

 

Rhonda - February 13

All parents have a lot of hopes. What you have to try to remember is They love you unconditionally. I'ts hard parents seem so much older than us but they still remember what it was like to be young, so you might be suprised. However maybe they are difficult in other ways??? What are your dreams sweetie.

 

listy - February 13

I want to open a store and open a work out room and open a daycare

 

Rhonda - February 13

Thats a lot of dreams sweetie! Would you mind if I asked for some info on the babies father and history???

 

Someone who cares - February 13

Be careful about giving out too much info about yourself to people you do not know. You never know what intensions they have.

 

Rhonda - February 13

OK I'm not going to ask you for anymore personal info, but I do want to help and I don't know what you should tell your boyfriend because I don't know enough, however by answering you I'm bumping you to the top of the forum and just maybe someone knows better. Good Luck Sweetie

 

listy - February 13

Me and the babies father have been going out for a year on feb. 11th....we talked about wityh if I got pregnant...I asked him what he would do and he said keep it but i am still afraid

 

someone who cares - February 13

I think your boyfriends reaction to the pregnancy will have a great effect on what you decide to do. So you should wait until you talk to him before making any decisions.

 

Rhonda - February 13

Bad question I know. However Gut instinct do you trust him????

 

listy - February 13

yes I do and I want to have kids with him not now

 

someone who cares - February 13

It sounds like you are seriously considering other options. You are young and you need to take your time making your decision you have a long future ahead of you. And you are the one who will be living with the choice you make.

 

Rhonda - February 13

It sounds like your pretty happy with your boyfriend, however you need more support and information than he can give you. Isn't there anyone in your family or VERY CLOSE friends that you can talk to.What are you feeling at the moment REALLY. I mean when you have that initial scary VERY SCARY period your really not ready to make any decision. You and your boyfriend need to talk to a Family Member or Very Close Friend. They Love you unconditionally Honey and will not I HOPE force you one way or another but help you follow your heart. GOD BLESS!!!!

 

Tanya - February 13

Beware of wolves in sheeps clothing.

 

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