I Am Desperate For Help

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xxprincessxx - January 19

Hey im new here and found this place by accident. Im only 15. 16 in 2months. I have id twins Sophia and India. They were born healthy at 37weeks and and are now 2months old. I cant cope anymore though. Im surviving on maybe 3hrs sleep a night if im lucky and then have school the next day whilst they stay with my stepmums sister. I cant concentrate and am need of desperate help. Anyone help me sort a routine with them and get them to sleep its driving me crazy and i really love them loads they are just terrors! thanks x

 

hailey07 - January 19

well do you live with your mother? or what about the father of the babies? could you get anyone to help you maybe 3 nights a week so you can manage to get some sleep? 2 month old babies are going to do their own thing, you might get them on a set schedule if youre lucky, but if you have babies that are fussy it's not going to get much better. i would try finding some help.

 

xxprincessxx - January 19

Well no i dont. I was 13 when she left and i never saw her again. my dad works away so i live with my stepmum and she is only 26 and a teacher so needs her sleep. Dont know who the father of the babies is as it was a rape. As you can see im in a difficult situation! Any help as to what to do appriciated thanks! x

 

Grandpa Viv - January 19

Sorry about the tough situation. The night waking is something every mum has to learn to handle, and having twins makes it even worse. Take the longest sleep they have at night and start stretching it by 10 minutes either end. Let them cry for that ten minutes if you have to. Within a couple of months you will have them sleeping 4 hours at a stretch, and by 6 months from 11pm to 5am. Good luck!

 

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